hello678 Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 "hi, yes of course we can talk. everytime. when you see me online you can message me and then we can talk.." mtom12>> this is his reply. ok. Well you have two choices. You can one, ignore him and delete him, or two ask once more to be together and if he says no than ignore him and delete him. Link to comment
hello678 Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 I can tell this isn't going to leave your system without one last attempt, and since you've already done the damage by messaging I recon you may aswell speak to him about the breakup and ask him to reconsider. I already know what his answer will be (no), but after that you have to remove him from Facebook for good. Link to comment
betrayed911 Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 What he does,where he goes is not your consern anymore,he broke up with you-he didnt want you in his life anymore,thats harsh but at the moment its your story! Sure after some monts he msg you,so what?That doesn't mean anything,my ex msg me last night too I wanted to chat with her but i didn't-have some pride,he is not your life,you are beutifull and have lots of other stuff you can do-what do you care if he msg you or not if he says he is sorry and wants tot alk about something important you can listen to what he got to say,but otherwise forget it.You have to show him you're not despered,people want what they cant have. Just msg him that you need to delete him from fb (really watching his posts,songs,statuses is pure poison for you,I mean REALLY dont do that),dont worry he will contact you again,but at this stage you're to emotional to make things work between youguys,you mindset has to be that you dont care if you get toghether or not,thats when you will atract him back not now when w/e he says you see it as a sign of happines or pittiness...Block him from fb so he cant msg you too,I know its scary but its the right way,understand that you have to heal to have him you wount have him now...NC write here its very helpfull!Best wishes for you Link to comment
shatteredchick Posted June 8, 2011 Author Share Posted June 8, 2011 I can tell this isn't going to leave your system without one last attempt, and since you've already done the damage by messaging I recon you may aswell speak to him about the breakup and ask him to reconsider. I already know what his answer will be (no), but after that you have to remove him from Facebook for good. HAHA. i know! hmmmmm, I think what I will do is Im going to ask him to be in a relationship again with me on FB(status). if he doesnt accept it. byebye fb! ohmy im so pathetic I dont know who I am anymore. Link to comment
shatteredchick Posted June 8, 2011 Author Share Posted June 8, 2011 thank you! thank you! whew, maybe one step at a time? i did hide him from my news feed on FB.. baby steps or??? Link to comment
betrayed911 Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 For the love of God,woman no baby steps delete him from everywhere now I know how it feels i got dumped 25 days ago it was hell,pain chest,no sleep,wake-up depressions,didnt want to do anything but smoke ciggaretts and drink coffe all day,BUT IT GETS better i now feel likeee uhhhh 65% of me i know im on the rigth track now.BTW like you I too didnt want to close all the doors the first 2 weeks,but finally i did by blocking in fb-which didnt stop her to contact me via her cousin fb one week later,so just know that: The dumper if he wants he knows how to get you back-they always know how to get you back,and if needed they will brake down the doors you closed to get you The dumpee's job is to move on,and have some selfpride and respect,beeing dumped means that you are no longer available for you ex and they cant be a part of your life anymore,they will notice the difference. What you need now is some confidance boost go out on a date-nothing special,or with friends but dont talk about your ex,but my advice is if you still feel pain NOT to have sex yet-I felt like a traitor when i did.Just go out have fun,let him see what a beutifull person he pushed away,how happy you're w/o him,that's atraction! Link to comment
shatteredchick Posted June 10, 2011 Author Share Posted June 10, 2011 betrayed911: naaaah, no sex for me yet. hehe. we broke up for a reason, and it was mainly because of "me" I think(hihi). I dont blame myself, Im now thinking that in a way, maybe I was the one who wasn't "ready" and not him. so anyway,what about your ex? you getting back with her? hihi Link to comment
betrayed911 Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 She is checking up on me,trying to start cinversations and stuff...mixed signals I/m keeping strong,1 month ago i told her i love her she said its over,so its her time to move from now on I'm having fun now Link to comment
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