beachbum642 Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 I did alot of stupid things the other night. I ended up drinking too much at a concert and my ex who went with me to the concert and I got into an argument. The argument ended up getting way out of control to the point where I called the cops and had to have my father come pick me up. He says he forgives me and that the cops weren't even that bad, it was the point that my father said threatening remarks to him. He says he still wants to work on things, and still loves me and cares about me. But i just feel horrible about everything. I have never acted out like that before EVER I think i had a lot of pent up frustration and he kept saying hurtful things which drove me to act like i did. But there is no excuse for how I acted. I completely went way over the line when I shouldn't have. And drinking is not an excuse either. After all of this I have def taken a second look at myself, and am NEVER going to be like that again. I sent him an edible arrangement today saying I was sorry for my actions. I am not sure what else I can do, he says he just doesn't want stress right now and I can understand that, I just hope that everything will just go back to how they were before and we can move on and hopefully get back together one day. I also just am so mad at myself and wish I could stop thinking about all the stupid things I did that night, and how I acted...im completely embarrassed and upset about the whole thing and that I put him through it because he is a good guy and he didnt deserve that at all. Someone please give me words of wisdom. :sad: Link to comment
DN Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 I think you need to back off from him for a while. Calling the cops is pretty extreme and he is lucky he isn't in jail charged with domestic abuse - he might not want to take a chance that there will be a next time. Link to comment
beachbum642 Posted June 6, 2011 Author Share Posted June 6, 2011 Well he wouldn't have been charged with assault the only reason i called the cops is because i wanted my things out of his car, since I thought he said he was going to leave me at the concert. Link to comment
iBroken Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 He was charged with assault? On who? My advice to you is to back off for a bit - this sounds like a toxic relationship. Is this the first time it ever got this out of hand? How are your fights usually? Link to comment
beachbum642 Posted June 6, 2011 Author Share Posted June 6, 2011 NO ONE was charged with assault NO ONE the cops just followed me to the car to get my things out and asked him to leave that was all that happened. Our fights are NEVER like that drinking was involved and things were being said back and forth that caused it all to become bigger then what it should have been. Usually we fight for 2 minutes then make up and its over with. Like my ex said he isnt mad, he cares about me and loves me...he said he was just upset i involved other people when all he wanted to do was talk to me about it the next day after it blew over. Link to comment
DN Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 When cops get called into something like that anything can happen. Link to comment
beachbum642 Posted June 6, 2011 Author Share Posted June 6, 2011 Yes I understand that, but what happened ended up good. I know he needs his space and time thats the least I can do. I just wish there was something to do to let him know how truley sorry I am. He is a great guy, he said he isnt mad at me, love and cares about me, he said he just needs to step back a little and that is understandable. Link to comment
DN Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 Well, he may be telling the truth but I have to say that if I was in his place I would say similar things but also want to back off, probably permanently. I would be very concerned that any argument or disagreement in the future would also end up involving the cops and now his name is on file for some sort of domestic issue. I know that you don't think calling the cops is important and that it ended up well - but I would not see it that way at all. Link to comment
beachbum642 Posted June 6, 2011 Author Share Posted June 6, 2011 I am not sure why you think something was documented bc it wasnt the cops just drove there bike over...followed me to the car...didnt take names or anything and then left. That was all that happened. Link to comment
DN Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 Then he was very lucky that the police didn't do their job properly. But even so, he still knows you are willing to call the cops on him - which would be fair enough if he is violent but I would still steer clear of you. Link to comment
pl3asehelp Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 I am not sure why you think something was documented bc it wasnt the cops just drove there bike over...followed me to the car...didnt take names or anything and then left. That was all that happened. The police definitely documented ts if you live on the states. Regardless of anyone being charged, they document EVERYTHING. Has your father apologized? Link to comment
beachbum642 Posted June 7, 2011 Author Share Posted June 7, 2011 Well the cops didnt take anyone name or information so idk what they would have. As far as my father I called and asked him to apologize and he said he will not apologize. So Im still stuck feeling like a piece of crap. He still says he loves me and he told me he missed me yesterday...so all i can do i hope he will come around. Link to comment
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