So what does this mean if anything?

[Benzo]

Ok to keep it simple I was introduced to this girl back in January, we had hit it off pretty good too! Well the next couple months we spent time together and got to know eachother but things were starting to change. She started to go a little distant and wasn't acting the same as when we first met. Our calls and text were getting further and further apart. So I approached her and she told me that after her ex did what he did to her that she just wasn't ready yet to start another relationship, which I was ok with (trying to be understanding). So now that we are just friends we text or talk everyday, but my question is this> If I don't text her within a certain amount of time, she gets ahold of me, why? She will ask "how's it going" or " how's your day " or "have a good day"etc. Since we keep in contact almost everyday as friends, does that mean anything more than that?? I only ask because yes I still do care for her, and think about her all the time.

[CarnelianButterfly]

You put yourself into the friend zone. Bad place to be if you still want more because if you try anything she's going to feel the friendship wasn't real. She was distant because she wasn't ready, now that you've made it clear that you aren't approaching her with a relationship in mind, you're safe in her eyes. She doesn't mean anything more than keeping contact with her friend.

[Benzo]

Yeah I figured as much, just not what I wanted though. Thank you for your imput

[BlondeeBabee77]

I think that she cares about you& maybe has feelings for you, but she's just afraid to get hurt or afraid of ruining the friendship. never give up on someone you can't go a day without thinking about. And if that doesn't work out. We all need good friends(:

[Pebble]

I think that she cares about you& maybe has feelings for you, but she's just afraid to get hurt or afraid of ruining the friendship. never give up on someone you can't go a day without thinking about. And if that doesn't work out. We all need good friends(

 

What a lovely little saying, blondeeBabee!

[BlondeeBabee77]

It comes in handy when making decisions!

[happyguy23]

Buddy im not a relationship expert but i would say if you care about her tell her you understand but you still have feelings for her. I know that friendships can blossom into relationships but there has to be some sort of attraction. If you really want to be friends be friends but dont think that there is going to be a relationship further down the road, but with me saying that there doesnt mean there will not be. See you can tell the future or whose going to be in it. The only thing u can do is live in the present and be happy with yourself. I am a big believer in no contact because it builds that attraction of missing somone. The saying you don't know what you go till its gone applies for me. I believe in any situation u will miss people in your life does that mean you will get a second chance i cant tell you that. Just be happy bud and realize that at the end of the day u should go to bed with if i didnt wake up tomorrow did i do everything and tell everyone everything.