sobananas999 Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 Hello, sooo I've been NC for my ex for several weeks now and going strong, but a few nights ago I got a text from my ex's best friend that said "we have been trying to contact (my ex) all day and have not had any luck. Do you have news from him?' I replied saying no I haven't heard from him in several weeks. I haven't received anything else...I'm tempted to contact my ex just to see if he is alright, but I really don't want to break NC. Any advice? Link to comment
myheadvsheart Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 Hello, sooo I've been NC for my ex for several weeks now and going strong, but a few nights ago I got a text from my ex's best friend that said "we have been trying to contact (my ex) all day and have not had any luck. Do you have news from him?' I replied saying no I haven't heard from him in several weeks. I haven't received anything else...I'm tempted to contact my ex just to see if he is alright, but I really don't want to break NC. Any advice? No, do not contact him. One day is not enough to cause alarm - they can try his family first before resorting to you contacting him. If something is really wrong, you'd hear about it now. Link to comment
lizzy92 Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 I smell a rat..... very suspicious Have you not considered it may well be a set up to get you to contact him? Link to comment
SlowBlues Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 I smell a rat..... very suspicious Have you not considered it may well be a set up to get you to contact him? Agreed this seems very fishy to me. Don't take the bait. Link to comment
iBroken Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 Its a game - dont fall for the bait Link to comment
sobananas999 Posted June 6, 2011 Author Share Posted June 6, 2011 haha, thanks for your resposnes...I had a feeling, but I had hoped men over 30 would be a bit more mature Link to comment
Oneironaut Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 haha, thanks for your resposnes...I had a feeling, but I had hoped men over 30 would be a bit more mature I only have one word to say to that...HA! Seriously, some are and some aren't. I also suspect a game...and where there's smoke, there is often fire. Good for you for not taking the bait. Link to comment
sobananas999 Posted June 7, 2011 Author Share Posted June 7, 2011 okay...I think I'm reading too much into this, BUT what if they were actually playing a game with me to see if I would respond. I saw the message just a minutes after it was sent, didn't think twice are replied right away. Ah...perhaps that made me seem eager to have news from him (?) I'm only pondering the question since I never received a message back... Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted June 7, 2011 Share Posted June 7, 2011 They most likely were, but I wouldn't give it a second thought. Also, I agree with the others, this screams of a set-up. Link to comment
abitbroken Posted June 7, 2011 Share Posted June 7, 2011 I would leave it alone and not contact them. If they were really truly concerned about your ex, they would drive over to his place and knock. One day is not something for anyone to panic over unless they live with him and he never spends the night anywhere and never came home. Link to comment
chitown9 Posted June 7, 2011 Share Posted June 7, 2011 Oh, yeah. I had the same thing happen to me when I was a teenager. It was just to see if I would be concerned, and of course I was. He just wanted to see how you would react. Link to comment
lizzy92 Posted June 7, 2011 Share Posted June 7, 2011 Stop panicking, your in the drivers seat. He's waiting for a call or text from you looking for an update. Imagine how dissapointed he's feeling now that you havent showed any concern or that your cool enough not be wondering whether he's been found or dramatically rescued Link to comment
sobananas999 Posted June 8, 2011 Author Share Posted June 8, 2011 Thanks for your encouragement still going strong with NC Link to comment
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