bertdru Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 So there is this older woman who exhibits creepy and stalker-ish behaviour with my friend. She keeps pressuring him to marry her, despite the fact that he is not particularly attracted to her. I am a bit jealous of this situation and I sometimes wonder "how come no woman is stalking me in this manner? Am I not good enough to be stalked?" I feel very jealous of him even though he is a little scared of this woman. Is it wrong to feel jealous in this situation? Link to comment
ferna3069 Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 well maybe because you want some one to want you. and having a stalker is not good its just weird and unhealthy Link to comment
Brida Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 Some random lady is pressuring your friend into marrying her? Either your friend is exaggerating or she is a nut job. Don't invite trouble into your life by being jealous or you will have a bunny boiler stalking you before you know it. Link to comment
dramallama Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 Why would you be jealous of her? Unless you are in love with your guy friend? Link to comment
bertdru Posted June 5, 2011 Author Share Posted June 5, 2011 Why would you be jealous of her? Unless you are in love with your guy friend? LOL no I am not jealous of her, I am jealous of my friend. She is quite pretty but I think she is a little, uhhh, weird, I don't know. Link to comment
ibu Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 Are you kidding me? Having a stalker is NOT fun. There's really nothing to be jealous about. Be GLAD you don't have a creepy woman stalking you. Link to comment
ferna3069 Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 lol i think he doesnt really mean it do u? Link to comment
bertdru Posted June 5, 2011 Author Share Posted June 5, 2011 lol i think he doesnt really mean it do u? No, I have spoken to this woman. Not that much, but yeah enough to conclude that she is not particularly normal. And that she is fond of my friend. In a somewhat unhealthy way. Unfortunately I don't think she is interested in me. Link to comment
ChicoShadow Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 You keep saying unfortunately...why would you want this woman to like you? Her attention would not make you feel better. I would rather have someone who I love and who loves me doting over me, not some creepy stalker lady. I am sure you are perfectly likable. You don't need her attention to prove that. Link to comment
browney2 Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 You seem to have caught the "grass is greener in the other pasture syndrome". Having a stalker - NOT FUN NOT FUN. Appropriate words are frightening, scary, terrifying. This is extreme. Are you so jealous of your friend that you're also jealous of the negative things that happen to him? Fantasizing that even negative attention is great? You should be counting your blessings that you don't have anyone stalking you. Link to comment
bostonbruins44 Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 So there is this older woman who exhibits creepy and stalker-ish behaviour with my friend. She keeps pressuring him to marry her, despite the fact that he is not particularly attracted to her. I am a bit jealous of this situation and I sometimes wonder "how come no woman is stalking me in this manner? Am I not good enough to be stalked?" I feel very jealous of him even though he is a little scared of this woman. Is it wrong to feel jealous in this situation? Your friend likely has a stalker because he wants one.You can't tell me he hasn't given this women some kind of encouragement for her to continue with her beahviour.He could end it immediately if he wanted to. Link to comment
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