MrEnigma Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 So today, was a fun. Got to hang out with my best friend (ex's brother). We were out all day, went to chinatown and Universal city walk. Was in a good mood and everyhting having fun. So we get back to his house. She's not there, so my friend asks if I'm coming in. I tell him sure, because I've been trying to avoid hanging out at this house when shes there and avoiding her. Were in a good mood joking around and watching some netflix, then she comes home. My friend says don't worry about it, were going to leave in a little. 20mins go by and then she just comes downstairs out of nowhere. I'm trying to not look at her or give her any attention. Then all of a sudden she walks in front of my view and goes " Umm I know your trying to ignore that I'm here, but you need to go home now. Whenever I'm home you need to leave." Both her brother and I go what the hell? Then I go why? She just goes because you need to go home. Then repeats her self with no reason why. Just you need to leave. I kind of got agitated and go " I havent done * * * * , What is your issue! " Her brother interjects and tells her I don't have to go anywhere and tells her to screw off. Then she storms off. GAH IM PISSED! I HAVENT DONE ANYTHING OR EVEN TALKED TO HER WHATSOEVER SINCE APRIL. ALL I DID WAS A NICE GESTURE OF TELLING HER GOOD LUCK ON HER FINALS AND YOU CAN HAVE MY LEFTOVERS. Why the hell is she some immature and childish. She broke up with me, she hurt me, and didn't want me. SHe pushed me away. Now she's trying to ruin my friendship with her brother. WHAT IS HER MAJOR MALFUNCTION. Link to comment
Oneironaut Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 Wow...what an immature little twit. I'm glad her brother stood up to her, because that was nonsense. She doesn't own the house, and she has no right to dictate her brother's guests. She's a spoiled brat. You can do WAY better. Link to comment
Live-N-Learn Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 Yeah what she did was wrong but I also think it would be best if you did not go to her house. Why set yourself up for these type of situations to occur? You knew there was a chance she might come home and if your honest with yourself, you may have wanted her to while you were there. idk Link to comment
Arsonist Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 Immaturity. I'm guessing she's young so just let it go one ear out the other, getting mad about it only feeds into her negative energy. Link to comment
MrEnigma Posted June 5, 2011 Author Share Posted June 5, 2011 Yeah what she did was wrong but I also think it would be best if you did not go to her house. Why set yourself up for these type of situations to occur? You knew there was a chance she might come home and if your honest with yourself, you may have wanted her to while you were there. idk Well I have been avoiding to go to her house. Today I had a good time and my friend invite me to come inside. I made it clear to him that im trying to let go and avoid her at all costs. I was just having fun so I wanted to continue to enjoy my day, even if she was there or not. I didn't want anything to ruin my mood. I knew she was coming home but I was expecting to be gone by then. Yet she came so I kept my cool and blocked her out. Trust me i was hoping she wouldn't come home. I'm trying my best to not set myself up, Im trying to maintain my friendship with my friend. I feel now, that everything I have to say, I'm sorry I cant come in because of your sister. It feels shes getting her way and if i can say; Winning. What i mean by that is she still thinks shes in control. Link to comment
wrec Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 My ex is doing this too. She broke up with me and now she hates me, found a new rebound guy. Read this: I posted it there, so i don't have to post it twice. Link to comment
myheadvsheart Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 . ---SNIP---- ALL I DID WAS A NICE GESTURE OF TELLING HER GOOD LUCK ON HER FINALS AND YOU CAN HAVE MY LEFTOVERS. I'm sorry if I missed this elsewhere - but when did you tell her this? And what exactly did you mean by "leftovers?" Did you leave food for her house at some point in this story? Sorry, just confused. Sometimes offering someone "leftovers" is interpreted differently...like a dismissal. Maybe I'm reading in to it though. Link to comment
Bcom Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 Wow bud! Ask her who died an left her the throne?! She sounds like something else! I'm sorry but I kind of laughed reading the part about her satanding in front of you! I pictured like pippy longstockings with her hands on her hips hollering at you! Dude she is off her rocker! Link to comment
MrEnigma Posted June 5, 2011 Author Share Posted June 5, 2011 I'm sorry if I missed this elsewhere - but when did you tell her this? And what exactly did you mean by "leftovers?" Did you leave food for her house at some point in this story? Sorry, just confused. Sometimes offering someone "leftovers" is interpreted differently...like a dismissal. Maybe I'm reading in to it though. Well What happened was I went to a restuaraunt with my friends and we didn't invite her. So after that I felt bad because she had been lefted out because of me. So leftovers was pretty much the food that I didn't finish, and the dish was her favorite. So went on with a nice gesture over text saying you can my leftovers and good luck on the finals. Wow bud! Ask her who died an left her the throne?! She sounds like something else! I'm sorry but I kind of laughed reading the part about her satanding in front of you! I pictured like pippy longstockings with her hands on her hips hollering at you! Dude she is off her rocker! Dude she like wormed her body in front of the tv, it made my eyes goes nuts to re adjust. hahah she did put one hand on her hip. Link to comment
Bcom Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 Ha Ha bud! The hand on her hip told you that she was serious! =p Link to comment
MrEnigma Posted June 6, 2011 Author Share Posted June 6, 2011 I would of seriously torn her a new one if I wasn't at her house and in front her brother. Yet I respect people and I act mature at someone else's home. He got heated a bit but good thing he interjected and told her * * * * off for me haha Link to comment
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