snow white Posted June 4, 2011 Share Posted June 4, 2011 ...i would be the first person he would come and find to make sure i was okay. i thought it was sweet. even though he was the one who made the real "final" decision about breaking up, we very much want to remain friends. him saying that to me made me feel good. he's not the kind of person to say things he doesn't mean. Link to comment
InLimboForEver Posted June 4, 2011 Share Posted June 4, 2011 Try not to analyse it too much because it will just mess with Your head.... Although I am sure you do mean a lot to him, at least you have that much! My Ex hates me... & I would do anything absolutely anything for my ex to say something 1 percent as nice as that... So count yourself lucky for still remaining friends... Link to comment
snow white Posted June 4, 2011 Author Share Posted June 4, 2011 oh, not over-analyzing it. we just have no reasons to hate each other, and we do still care about each other. it is just nice that he shows me he does care. just because we're broken up doesn't mean we're still not important to each other. and not all exes are evil. Link to comment
Bcom Posted June 4, 2011 Share Posted June 4, 2011 That is good to hear snow white! I'm glad to see that some people can be nice! It gives me hope! I agree with limbo! My ex wouldn't be caught dead being nice! Wasn't her style! Link to comment
DarkSoul Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 I agree not all exes are evil. One of my exes is my best friend for 5 years now...Im happy for you, stranger. Glad something made you feel good. Link to comment
dramallama Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 ...i would be the first person he would come and find to make sure i was okay. i thought it was sweet. even though he was the one who made the real "final" decision about breaking up, we very much want to remain friends. him saying that to me made me feel good. he's not the kind of person to say things he doesn't mean. I hope that being friends with your ex isn't stopping you from meeting other people that are not going to wait for an apocalypse before wanting to commit. Link to comment
snow white Posted June 6, 2011 Author Share Posted June 6, 2011 I hope that being friends with your ex isn't stopping you from meeting other people that are not going to wait for an apocalypse before wanting to commit. LOL, no. It's only been a month since we broke up, and when the time comes where I want to start dating again (usually takes about 4 months for me after a break up, depending on if I meet someone I hit it off with) I'm pretty sure I won't be hung up on him. Although break ups hurt and I still miss him tons sometimes, I'm not the kind of person to adopt the whole "He was the only one!" attitude. The reason it was even brought up was because we started collaborating on a story when we were still together about us surviving together in an apocalyptic setting, and the other night we were texting back and forth about further ideas because I had begun writing it. I told him that reading the introduction made me sad, because it was written when we were still together, and in response he said that if the apocalypse happened right now, I would still be the first person for him to come and find. Link to comment
dramallama Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 Ok, well, as long as it's not keeping you from moving on, that's fine. Link to comment
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