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[mr_zanon]

Yesterday I met a girl, totally at random, at the bus stop. She lives nearby.

We chatted for about 10min, then we left (apart).

 

Since she told me where she works (also nearby where I work), I googled for a phone number and called her. Due to noise and other people talking (friends making fun of her because 'a guy was calling her' she gave me her cellphone number and asked me to call later, after she left work.

 

And so I did. We talked for literally 1 hour, she asked me to facebook her, she told me she was going to a friend's birthday party, and asked me about my plans for tonight. I just said "I was gonna ask you out". Long story short, "we'll talk again", as she said. Conversation was good, by the way.

 

I'd like to call her again tomorrow, since I'm out of town during weekdays, but I'm not sure if that would be a good move.

 

I don't have a question to ask you. I'd just like to hear opinions about the whole thing.

(Ok, maybe a "should I call her tomorrow or not", but probably I should just trust my gut feelings when the time comes...

[Yoshua]

Go for it man, she wouldnt have given you her cell if she wasnt keen, call her again and take her on a nice casual date.

[mr_zanon]

Oh, I will. Or at least I'll try!

 

Thanks for the quick reply.

[mr_zanon]

And so I talked to her today. There was a party in town tonight, her friends wanted her to join them, but she told me she wasn't in the mood for it.

So I suggested we went out. She happily accepted the offer, but first she would have to finish some stuff for college. Excellent, I thought.

I called her some hours later, she didn't pick up. A few minutes later, through facebook chat, she tells me her friends convinced her to go with them. Not good. Definitely not good.

I told her I wasn't expecting that. She seemed to be sorry, but through text anyone can express whatever emotion they want, right? Could be fake.

 

And that was it for today. #-o

[mouseno4]

I have to agree with Yosh here. Majority of girls dont ever give out mobile phone numbers or even request you to facebook her, unless she was genuinely interested. (i did say 'most')

 

I wish you the best of luck with this girl. I really hope she is in fact genuine about her interest. I would be very interested to learn if it all goes well for you.

[mr_zanon]

I have to agree with Yosh here. Majority of girls dont ever give out mobile phone numbers or even request you to facebook her, unless she was genuinely interested. (i did say 'most')

 

I wish you the best of luck with this girl. I really hope she is in fact genuine about her interest. I would be very interested to learn if it all goes well for you.

I understand your point of view. I didn't like what happened, but I haven't given up!

 

Thanks, and I'll try to keep this thread updated.

[mr_zanon]

Next saturday there will be a barbecue for an old friend's birthday. I see no reason for me to go all by myself.

[notvgoodngames]

I told her I wasn't expecting that. She seemed to be sorry, but through text anyone can express whatever emotion they want, right? Could be fake.

 

ummm, dont do that. Dont make her feel bad, i know it's not nice to change mind and not call u at least to let u know, but I would act as if u r cool and u r going out anyway, make it casual and light, ur reaction is a turn off imo

[mr_zanon]

ummm, dont do that. Dont make her feel bad, i know it's not nice to change mind and not call u at least to let u know, but I would act as if u r cool and u r going out anyway, make it casual and light, ur reaction is a turn off imo

You know when a child does something wrong, and you have to tell them that they shouldn't do that again, but you also know that you have to say that in a way that the child feels protected and that it's all ok, you're not mad and everything else? Well, I did my best at the moment.

 

Things seem to be fine, but no one can ever be sure. I'll see.