renaissancewoman101 Posted October 10, 2014 Share Posted October 10, 2014 Cool. Hope it's a good movie. Link to comment
Silverbirch Posted October 10, 2014 Share Posted October 10, 2014 I hope the procedure goes fine for your niece and they give her plenty of pain relief,mop or darling. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 10, 2014 Author Share Posted October 10, 2014 Cool. Hope it's a good movie. I hope it is a good movie Ren! Hopefully I won't be scared crapless , lol. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 10, 2014 Author Share Posted October 10, 2014 I hope the procedure goes fine for your niece and they give her plenty of pain relief,mop or darling. Yeah hopefully it goes easy for her poor little thing. That is two of my nieces in the last little while but I have had operations. My other niece had her ear and part of her skull replaced. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 10, 2014 Author Share Posted October 10, 2014 Tomorrow I get to see my mom! Maybe if I get to see her this whole stress thing will calm down. I am slowly devolving into a liquid diet. I keep forcing myself to eat and face the fear though. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 10, 2014 Author Share Posted October 10, 2014 A member of Parliment is REALLY handy. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 10, 2014 Author Share Posted October 10, 2014 I struggled down a piece of cheese today and a timbit. Woo . Oh and a cup of tea. I hope this anxiety crap ends soon. Link to comment
luminousone Posted October 10, 2014 Share Posted October 10, 2014 I struggled down a piece of cheese today and a timbit. Woo . Oh and a cup of tea. I hope this anxiety crap ends soon. Hope so too- Are you able to eat puréed things like apple sauce and soups? Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 10, 2014 Author Share Posted October 10, 2014 Hope so too- Are you able to eat puréed things like apple sauce and soups? Yes ,that would be great! Solid things at the moment are making me choke. But liquids no problem. Purées should be good too. I know this will come to an end because it has before and I can see you know the light at the end of the tunnel I don't feel hopeless and I have skills so I know it'll come to an end it's just a matter of when. But yes purées are a great idea. My breathing hasn't been working which always worked before. But however mild pain has been working. So what I do is I dig my fingernails as hard as I can into my arm for about a minute and that usually stops the panic. That usually brings clarity pretty quick. Link to comment
luminousone Posted October 10, 2014 Share Posted October 10, 2014 Hope you have a great visit with your mom tomorrow! Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 10, 2014 Author Share Posted October 10, 2014 Hope you have a great visit with your mom tomorrow! I am going to love it! A lot of conflict has left my mom's place so it will be great. And this weekend is our Thanksgiving. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 10, 2014 Author Share Posted October 10, 2014 Today Malala won the Nobel peace prize along with a cowinner! It brought tears to my eyes what these two brave people have accomplished. Link to comment
zentoCC Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 Today Malala won the Nobel peace prize along with a cowinner! It brought tears to my eyes what these two brave people have accomplished. I was watching her make her speech. She's accomplished so much at such a young age. Her family must be so proud. She even went to school after she heard she won! Hope you have a good time at your Mum's! Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 11, 2014 Author Share Posted October 11, 2014 Thanks Zento! Leaving now. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 11, 2014 Author Share Posted October 11, 2014 Yay! Our insurance paid out their portion of the assessment! Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 Good for you. One less thing to worry about. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 12, 2014 Author Share Posted October 12, 2014 Good for you. One less thing to worry about. This is true! ************* Last night my mom and I were up till 2 o'clock in the morning talking. She said something really strange, she said when you were little you always hated being little from the time you could really tell anybody about it. I said I know I despise being little ,always. I said ,I wanted to control things. She said ,I know you always wanted to from the time you could talk. But why? And I said ,because I didn't trust anybody to do anything right. And she said but I looked after your life when you were little. And I said but obviously I didn't trust even you to do it do it right. And she said ,yeah I guess you didn't. I said I guess you giving me to my grandparents to live with when I was a little baby affected me more than you thought. She said ,yeah but I lived in the orphanage and had to get over it. I said people have different emotional abilities and instabilities from the second they are born. Don't forget my father's family has a lot of genetic mental health instability. And I am genetically related to these people. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 13, 2014 Author Share Posted October 13, 2014 Tomorrow I am donating my wedding gown to a lady who makes funeral gowns for stilborns. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 Don't you want to keep a part of it as a wedding memento? Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 13, 2014 Author Share Posted October 13, 2014 Don't you want to keep a part of it as a wedding memento? No, it just takes space in my closet. I will never have a need for it. It will just be rotting material. I have many pics of it and a video. Besides if it brings any measure of anything to a grieving parent I would rather that then rotting in a closet. Link to comment
annie24 Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 aww, that is really nice of you Vic. Yeah, it's not like your son will want to wear it one day, haha! I've heard about the baby funeral gowns and I think it's a really nice idea. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 14, 2014 Author Share Posted October 14, 2014 aww, that is really nice of you Vic. Yeah, it's not like your son will want to wear it one day, haha! I've heard about the baby funeral gowns and I think it's a really nice idea. Yeah ,it's not really like my son is going to wear it or if he has a wife that she's going to wear it you know? And it's not like I'm going to value my wedding day more or my marriage more because I have a dress from 20 years ago. You are right it is just a really wonderful idea. Maybe the woman can send me a picture of the gowns she made from it. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 14, 2014 Author Share Posted October 14, 2014 And I'm back to normal again ,eating once again no more choking! yes!!! Link to comment
annie24 Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 I know of only one woman who wore her mother's wedding dress. but she was very traditional. i agree, too many things in the closet collecting dust. good to put stuff to good use. Asking for photos sounds nice! Link to comment
Fudgie Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 I love the idea of donating an old wedding gown to that cause. I'm sure it brings a lot of comfort to grieving parents. If I get married someday and wear a traditional dress, I would do that. My mom still has her dress collecting dust. I wonder what she would think of donating it. Sent via Tapatalk Link to comment
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