sarah114 Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 Hi everyone, I'm 23. I've gone out with this guy like twice. He's made it clear he wants a relationship and has not hid the fact that he wants to make out with me and go further. I don't trust him so I've kind of been going slow. My ex bf cheated on me two months ago and I have major trust issues with men now. This guy makes comments sometimes that I find offensive. For example, I made a comment that he seems like he gets up really early. And he said something like "I guess you don't know till you sleep over". I find this kind of insulting, since I think I am pretty classy (though not conservative by any means) and I just don't sleep over guys' houses that I hardly know. I find it insulting that he would insinuate that I would. (I mean if it's a boyfriend it's different, but I've only seen this guy twice). Am I overreacting? I told him straight out I don't do that. Am I just being a snob or is he being creepy?? Thanks for any advice! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 I think he is trying to be funny and flirty but it really didn't have that effect. if you want to go more slowly, say at least a few months of dating before sleep-overs, then tell him that. you don't need to bring up 'trust issues' - but you can say that you believe in getting to know one another over a period of time and not rushing into anything. if he gets bored and moves on, so much the better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
savignon Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 I think he is trying to be funny and flirty but it really didn't have that effect. if you want to go more slowly, say at least a few months of dating before sleep-overs, then tell him that. you don't need to bring up 'trust issues' - but you can say that you believe in getting to know one another over a period of time and not rushing into anything. if he gets bored and moves on, so much the better. I agree with this!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solo Pilot Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 I think he is trying to be funny and flirty but it really didn't have that effect. if you want to go more slowly, say at least a few months of dating before sleep-overs, then tell him that. you don't need to bring up 'trust issues' - but you can say that you believe in getting to know one another over a period of time and not rushing into anything. if he gets bored and moves on, so much the better. +2 Good stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarah114 Posted February 1, 2011 Author Share Posted February 1, 2011 I think he is trying to be funny and flirty but it really didn't have that effect. if you want to go more slowly, say at least a few months of dating before sleep-overs, then tell him that. you don't need to bring up 'trust issues' - but you can say that you believe in getting to know one another over a period of time and not rushing into anything. if he gets bored and moves on, so much the better. Thanks, you're right! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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