22n32 Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 My whole dating life I always went for the sexy next door type of girls, there was always something about them that I liked sexy but bake me an apple pie afterwards. Haha But the last few yrs. I've been drawn to the sexy wild party girls.. these girls are usually an emotional wreck, unstable and no future.. But I'm sooo bored with the next door type of girl, I love having a rel with one, but the font excite me at all, I get bored quick, and sexually it was a dull thing.. Now my most recent ex was wild,fun and she had a good heart, but she was unstable.. but our chemistry in and outa the bedroom was electric.. I'm scared I'm never gonna be happy or satisfied with either.. girl next door will bore me to death and the wild one will not settle.. I feel like I'm dommed and have major problems regarding this.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shuttlefish Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 Join the club. Once you taste "crazy girl" it's pretty hard to go back. I'm with you, and I wish I could find some kind of balance between the two extremes. Tough to find that though, it seems to be one of those polar things - either it's one or the other. Argh! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparkly Eyes Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 I don't quite understand what you mean. Can you explain what the difference is between these two types of girls, perhaps with more details? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
22n32 Posted February 1, 2011 Author Share Posted February 1, 2011 Lindsey Lohan vs Taylor swift... Taylor swift u wanna take home and marry, Lindsey lohan u wanna be wild with hoping u can marry her and calm down a little but still be natuarly wild.. I guess its the same phenomenan how girls are attracted to the bad boys. But the always move on to the next adventure. See my whole life I've been a bad boy, but I also grow up and got my act together. But the wildness will forever be in me.. I guess I need a partner that has both side like myself, but it always seems to be one or the other.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superfox Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 Hey, I'm a former wild girl and I've mellowed...a bit. It does happen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparkly Eyes Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 Again, I wish you explained better...but with what I understand, I'd say I'm a mixture of both. Wild and crazy at times while tame at other times. I wouldn't say there are two category of girls, good girls or bad girls, I wouldn't say that for guys either. There are guys who have the bad boy appeal to them who are also pretty good for an stable relationship, imo anyway. Perhaps you should search better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shuttlefish Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 Good girl will bake you a pie, while wearing a turtle-neck sweater and sensible shoes, later she will bore you off to sleep with a long and detailed story about how her cat was watching a bird through the window, after you fall asleep she will read tame romance novels and phone her mother. Bad girl will steal the neighbours pie off the window sill and serve it to you wearing naught but a push up bra, miniskirt and heels, later she put you to sleep giving you a three hour sex marathon so noisy that it wakes the neighbours who discover the empty pie plate and call the cops, getting you arrested which she will think is "funny". Flash forward 10 years: The good girl leaves you - she gets tired of her boring existence, wakes up and joins a circus, cult, biker gang or swingers club; The bad girl leaves you - she has to go into rehab (they tried to make me go but I said, no, no, no) or contracts hepetitis, or becomes born again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superfox Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 Hahahahahah!!! *This* bad girl wears biker boots and push up bras, will drink you under the table then dance on it, crash out on the bed then get up and make you a full English breakfast in false lashes and make-up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Sanguine- Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 I really don't think you can generalize girls into either of those categories. In fact, I think there are very few girls who fit either of those. There is more depth to a person than that. Just because a girl is not outrageously wild in the beginning of dating, does not mean that once you get to know her she won't loosen up a bit. I guess I say that because that's how I see myself. Yeah, I come off as a bit shy and very sweet when I first meet a guy.. and it takes me a bit of time to be intimate with someone. BUT once I am, I am completely the opposite of shy and can be 'bad' while still maintaining the qualities you need to have a relationship. I think most girls are the best of both worlds and you're only limiting yourself if you categorize us like that. You will definitely be missing out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shuttlefish Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 Hahahahahah!!! *This* bad girl wears biker boots and push up bras, will drink you under the table then dance on it, crash out on the bed then get up and make you a full English breakfast in false lashes and make-up I think I'm falling for you (eggs over easy please and bacon instead of sausages) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moontiger Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 I just had to add my thoughts to this thread. The type of girl I think you need is one who you can bring home to mom but once the bedroom door closes she had a plethora of naughty outfits and a piercing or two. I remember a friend of mine saying the best way to keep a relationship going (if you are female) is to be a lady in public and a (inset derogatory term of a female) in the bedroom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
22n32 Posted February 1, 2011 Author Share Posted February 1, 2011 I just had to add my thoughts to this thread. The type of girl I think you need is one who you can bring home to mom but once the bedroom door closes she had a plethora of naughty outfits and a piercing or two. I remember a friend of mine saying the best way to keep a relationship going (if you are female) is to be a lady in public and a (inset derogatory term of a female) in the bedroom. This is so true and how my ex was. God I miss her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparkly Eyes Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 I just had to add my thoughts to this thread. The type of girl I think you need is one who you can bring home to mom but once the bedroom door closes she had a plethora of naughty outfits and a piercing or two. I remember a friend of mine saying the best way to keep a relationship going (if you are female) is to be a lady in public and a (inset derogatory term of a female) in the bedroom. hahaha, that's me. I'm not always a lady in public tho, I joke around way too much to be considered a "lady" all the time, sometimes I seem to be like one of the guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shnoodle Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 I think a lot of women can be a mixture of both, more than the OP seems to realize. Duality is part of human nature. I can be wild and I can be boring, but I don't consider myself good or bad, but "crazy" for sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lavenderdove Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 Everyone who is dumped (and didn't want to be) thinks their ex is perfect and that they'll never meet another one like them (or someone who will make them happy). Then they eventually meet someone who might be totally different, and fall in love, and are perfectly happy... You just need to quit trying to categorize people or judging new people by hoping they are clones of the ex... just go out with a lot of women, and you WILL meet someone who makes you happy. Every person is unique and a mix of all kinds of different personality traits, but love can be the amazing equalizer. Something that might drive you crazy in someone you don't like that much, you might think is cute in someone you love. The trick is getting out and finding a new person who does make you fall in love, and the more new women you meet (without specifically looking for a clone of your ex), the better your chances of finding her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tiredofvampires Posted February 1, 2011 Share Posted February 1, 2011 I dunno. I almost never go to wild parties, because I don't drink (and that's all there is to do there). But I keep a frayed bullwhip in the closet (literally, in the closet.) No one's ever called the cops on me for making off with a pie, but a few times I've had a neighbor bang on my door or wall to turn my music down. I'm certainly the girl who lives next door. I enjoy many-colored panties, though. I've had the occasional animal print one. I confess I really like eating pie. Literally, pie. Pie someone else has baked. I like lemon meringue best, because it's tart and not too sweet. I like eating pie with a partner especially, and especially after a low-budget meal at some 24-hour-open hole-in-the-wall. Especially if it's because we have after-naughty munchies. I don't know where all this leaves me. But I do feel your pain because I've run into similar problems, inversely, with bad boys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moontiger Posted February 2, 2011 Share Posted February 2, 2011 I think there are way more girls out there who look sweet but have a darker side than most people thing. I prefer dressing conservatively, never wear heavy make up, flats or low heels mostly. But once the door closes...well lets just say I am a very private person but I'm certainly not boring. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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