whatatodo Posted January 28, 2011 Share Posted January 28, 2011 I know people tell me that time moves on you can meet someone else etc etc, but I know there is no one else.... though me and my ex had issues, it was almost because I loved him too much and was scared to lose him and ended up pushing him away. And I finished it two weeks ago, and he's telling me it's not enough time to change, to come back, and even if it were he's not sure he could guarantee he wouldn't make me unhappy again....... but it was ME making me unhappy as I thought too much about the past instead of enjoying the fact that he WAS WITH ME!! He says he 'cares so much about' me and that 'this is all very difficult' but that changes nothing!! I know he can keep busy and not think of me, yet when I'm busy I'm STILL thinking of him - I can't even do no contact (and anyone that's read my previous threads I work in an open plan office with him too!!) Part of me wonders if he's met someone else........ And I know he met someone new on a holiday the other week, but he told me at the time, and her friend told me the other day that it's very unlikely. I just don't think he DOES care or he'd be itching to get back with me, and correct the faults, he said in me finishing it showed him!! UUUUUUUUUURGH!! I just want to know he's coming back to me - but I KNOW he's not! Link to comment
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