engraved2008 Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 I say that to myself ....instead of making us happier it brings more pain.I wished i would have done this long time a go when we broke up,but he gave me hopes telling me we ll try again when he finished school.He finished this winter and we still did not get back together.... I m on the 3 row of NC ,both of the times he checked on me and thats how i did let him back.I m angry that when we did split he did not tell me to move on.Might have been harder but i might have healed faster.He told me to call him every other day and told me i was still his girl because he had no girl in his life. I dated someone and when i told him he said he was gelous.He did not care.It was his ego that was hurt.He asked me if that guy was better in bed than him. He still asks questions about my personal life.He wants us to be freinds no matter what .For life.And even with benefits if posible.he still calls me babe and beautiful,sweetie and every time he recalls our good times. I m working on cutting him for good now and do not respond unless there is a regret on his part for reconciliation only.By that time i ll be healed for good. Just an advice DO NOT STAY FRIENDS if feelings are still there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MizzNatalie Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 I completely agree. I've cut off my exes that I still feel want me for more than friends. Other exes I can casually talk with about life, about their girlfriends and we can laugh about times we spent together. They even give me advice on future relationships and guys I meet. sometimes your ex is a person that needs attention and someone to get into bed with or sometimes they turn out to be nice friends. just don't drink around them. haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Love1336 Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 =( Yeah, i learned that one hard way. Impossible to be friends right after a break up. you need time to be away from that person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Love1336 Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 I can't lie those after a year or two. haha, i want to be friends with my ex. My first love ever, we stop talking for a year, and somehow started to talk again, and we are the bestest of friends. I simply adore him, and he does for me too. We can talk about sex, life, our moments, and be happy. Thats what i want from my current ex, but i know i need time for him to be my best friend, which i hope when the time comes we can be friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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