broken6 Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 hi all i m shaking as i write this my ex just txt saying he was in a bad place, asking if i was at home so he could come over. I m over nighting for work (blessing in disguise i think) so he called, he said he was feeling really severly down. almost jump off a bridge down. I asked what was wrong and he said he was regretting wrong decisions he made. i asked if he wanted to talk about it, and he said he could not talk, i said its me, you can always talk to me (togehter 11 yrs). I asked if it was about us and he said yes. I tried to talk to him about other happy stuff until his best mate got there to talk to him. but it was not working i think it was making it worse. so he said he could not talk to me, he would talk to his mate and call me later tonight. i feel so excited i have butterflies in my stomach can not stop passing up and down the hallway shaking as i write this, maybe he wants me back!!!!!!!!!!! yay!!!!!!!!! I would not take him back straight away but we could work towards that. but maybe, it is about other stuff, he did not say he wanted me back, maybe it is about using cocaine the other day, or something else or maybe he is just having a week moment he will not give into i feel like i m either going to be really happy later, or more depressed then ever. and just today i was feeling like i was letting go...........what timing!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
broken6 Posted January 27, 2011 Author Share Posted January 27, 2011 well, aren't i the fool. he just txt me saying he is fine going out for drinks with work, friends. i asked if he was still planning on calling me back his response "not at this stage no sorry" what a **** beep beep beep ing beep. i feel so hollow, i feel in shock he said those things, they are i regard to me he talks to his best mate than all of a sudden he is going out for the evening.........this is such crap Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jumbrella Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 Why would someone do that? So sorry to hear that. Thats a totally screwed up thing to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazyaboutdogs Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 maybe it is about using cocaine the other day If he is into the whole drug thing then this explains his erratic, hurtful behaviour. You are better off not having a man like this in your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janeiac Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 broken6, it's time for you to go into strict no contat. If he calls, don't pick up. If he texts, delete it without replying. Better yet, block his phone number. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nihongo Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 I agree with Crazyaboutdogs. He needs help. He's talking about cocaine and jumping off bridges. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somewhere Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 Go NC...doesn't matter what he says. He is treating you like crap, do you deserve that??? After being nice to him and willing to be there to help him. Don't be a doormat, be the strong and proud person you want to be. You sound like you have respect for yourself and so you should. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
broken6 Posted February 3, 2011 Author Share Posted February 3, 2011 i just told him i do not want him to contact me again. he said ok, he was really quiet, and did not really have anything to say. it really took me by surprise. i feel like i did not get my point accross properly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Seeker Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 i just told him i do not want him to contact me again. he said ok, he was really quiet, and did not really have anything to say. it really took me by surprise. i feel like i did not get my point accross properly. You will if you don't respond to his action. When you respond to the behavior, you will get the consequence of that action. Do yourself a favor, no need to explain anymore to him. He knows what he is doing. That's like asking if the team is going to forfeit for you so you can get the trophy and win the championship. You and your team decides not to practice because it's going to be easy win. When the game comes the team kicked you and your team's butt because you made a simple request and they knew the strategy. LOL I hope you get my analogy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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