Faithful120 Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 When my boyfriend and I just started dating, he's the one who gave me butteflies. Now after over 3 months of dating, we have seem to have lost the spark. He always said sweet things to me, and I loved them. But lately, he seems like he has lost intrest; as if he's bored. He still acts the same romanticly, (putting his arms around me etc) but the spark feeling just isn't there. For the past two weeks, we have seemed to get into a lot of fights that make the other person upset. We always make up after, but I'm the one who always says sorry. He never does, ever when it's pratically his fault. He gets jealous really easily, and he's very sensitive. I just don't know where to turn, I love him with all my heart and don't want to lose him. What should I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinkelephant Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 Space? Maybe you guys have been spending too much time together and have taken each other for granted. Also, have you tried talking through these fights? Perhaps resentments are building up causing you to lose the feelings of 'sparks'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snowy Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 You need to pull back a bit and give him space. A similar situation is happening to me right now. The more you cling, the further he will become. If he doesn't come back after you give him space, the only thing to do then is to break up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catfeeder Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 He might be feeling a bit suffocated. If you back off and let him adjust to seeing less of you, he could end up appreciating you more. To help you do this, just remind yourself now and then, "Less is more." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petite Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 Pull back and let him come to you. After fights don't say sorry unless it is your fault, and don't contact him (it's hard, but you can do it) until he decided to make contact with you and apologizes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faithful120 Posted January 27, 2011 Author Share Posted January 27, 2011 Thanks everyone, I'll try to give him more space from now on and see where that gets me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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