im_the_undead Posted January 26, 2011 Share Posted January 26, 2011 not like sexually attractive or anything.. i mean like more of a friendly kind of way. like, what traits do you think draws people to find someone interesting enough to befriend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seymore Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 Whether or not you've got money to loan. Foolproof. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jd1983 Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 A sense of humor is good for starters, it shows that you're easy going and don't always take things so seriously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetpea03 Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 Someone positive/up beat, sense of humor, similar values/beliefs, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seymore Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 1. Be dependable and reliable. Nobody wants a friend who doesn't show up when they say they will, or someone who won't have their back in a pinch. 2. Listen. Even if you don't care what the other person is talking about, the fact that you're listening is all that matters. Some people just need to vent, and sometimes those things they want to vent about aren't for just anyone to hear. 3. Don't judge or down the person. If a person trusts you enough to tell you something deep inside of them, you judging them is like a slap in the face. If they ask your opinion, fine. If not, keep it zipped. 4. Don't take everything so seriously. Nobody wants to joke around with someone who takes everything personally. Tell people what they mean to you and say nice things about them. Things like the above are sure to win you friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
im_the_undead Posted January 27, 2011 Author Share Posted January 27, 2011 lmao! too bad i don't have anyyyy money owell and yeah.. i'd like to say most of us have those qualities.. but i also believe that the way you look makes you more or less approachable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Seeker Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 A sense of humor is good for starters, it shows that you're easy going and don't always take things so seriously. Ha ha, that's me alright, but I'm too shy so I keep my feelings to myself. Maybe that's why I'm a professional at being one of the guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetpea03 Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 and yeah.. i'd like to say most of us have those qualities.. but i also believe that the way you look makes you more or less approachable. Not always... I have many different friends and they aren't all lookers. A friend I made a few years ago has a severe facial disfigurement, but she is the most awesome person you'd ever meet and her boyfriend thinks the world of her. The way she acts makes her very approachable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coyote1980 Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 ability to laugh at it or make a smart joke out of it even when you are in a horrible situation. I guess, someone I can look up to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PonytailFairy Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 Sense of humor Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ncoconut Posted January 28, 2011 Share Posted January 28, 2011 open, honest, sense of humor, creative, reliable, unique. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
im_the_undead Posted January 29, 2011 Author Share Posted January 29, 2011 i mean looks, but not "lookers" haha i notice that certain people gravitate more towards a person who doesn't 'out shine' them or something of that sort it's just an observation i've made Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tacotac Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 Money doesn't work. At least not for me. I pay for my bf most of the time, offered to pay for others, even be the driver. I do nice things for people & say nice things to them.... nope, nothing worked for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Love1336 Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 I guess a sense of humor. A person who smiles a lot. And to be honest i know i'ma sound crazy a person who 'appears' tough. Lol. I've noticed some of my closest friends are people who don't come off as friendly as they should. I'm drawn to people like that. Yeah. Im scare at first, but once like that 'tough' shell is broken they are really friendly and talk A LOT. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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