i want to contact my ex girlfriend who is married. but i am married . what i do?

[mithun777]

hi,

 

it is so difficult for me to express my intension to you all.

 

when she was studying in 12th. it was so nice to see her when she visit temple when she had exam. i always came and saw her. and she even saw me but as she is girl she couldn't `t say any thing. i also try to express my feelings many time. but i couldn't do it.

 

she always came out to see me when ever i standing down at her home.

 

after finish school we again met in collage. and atleast spend more then two years together. we have so many sweet memories during our collage times. even i was the person who sent her red rose in collage, but she dosent know about this. i was always be nervous when she pass beside from me in collage.

 

there are lots of memories which i would love to share with her. there are lots of moments when i tried to made contact with her. but all resulted in negative.for that i am taking all responsibility that i couldnt say her any thing.

 

even she dont know lots of time i tried to chat with her. but it was not made possible.

 

i know that she also like me. and she also want to be my friend. but i was thinking that what it would be happen if she say "no" to me??? and i was so worried too becoz if she say anythins to her family(we are reputed people in our area and stay in same street where my gf`s family lives) then it would be difficult for me. and more important thing is that i want to keep her pure for the person to whom she will marry in future. i am happy bcoz i can say that i never touch her.

 

i know that she is married and have two childrens and i m married tooo..

 

but is it possible that i call her and ask her to be my friend. i am not talking anymore about love with her. but can she be my best friend for life time?? i dont want that she love me again or i start to love her again. i just want to be her closest friend and i really want to share my memories with her.

 

pls pls help me what can i do????

[Jetta]

Stay away far far away. What you say you want and what you really want are not the same, you will cause trouble for her as well as yourself.

[lavenderdove]

No good will come of this... you are both married with families, and the world is full of people to be friends with who are not people you have an attraction to.

 

And your 'closest friend' should be your wife, not some other woman from your past.

 

Sorry, but there is no way you should do this... just isn't right and dangerous to your marriages and reputation.

[engraved2008]

I can feell your pain....going through something similar.No one has a right to judge you.Sometimes we love some people for the rest of our lives.Whatever u doing think about the children too,but in the same time follow your heart.

[Snny]

No good will come of this... you are both married with families, and the world is full of people to be friends with who are not people you have an attraction to.

 

And your 'closest friend' should be your wife, not some other woman from your past.

 

Sorry, but there is no way you should do this... just isn't right and dangerous to your marriages and reputation.

Totally true here. Don't do it for the sake of your own marriage. Since she is your ex, that chapter of your life should of been closed a long time ago and you should not return to it.