Further help! confused..

[donkzilla]

Hey, not long ago i posted this thread about a possible attraction between a girl and I.

 

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Now, please excuse the possible wall of text I may be about to write I have recently seen this girl a few more times, and I'm a little confused by her behaviour. As I've been about with her and her friends, not just her, it's a little bit harder, but anyway, I've noticed a few things.

 

1. When we're out as a group, I never end up standing near her, or if I do, it's for a split second.

2. She seems more uptight/nervous/not as talkative around me, even my friend noticed that there was some tension.

3. She talks to me perfectly fine and acts quite bubbly via facebook.

4. I think she still sneaks glances at me.

5. When we met up with her and her friends she hugs my friend, and then backs away/looks nervous and embarassed when she sees me and just says "hey" and gives me a big smile.

6. Has invited me to her party.

7. I still talk to her when we go out, but she just seems so shy as opposed to that first time

 

So yeah, just a little unsure on * * * is going on with this girl, and what I should do.. my friend said that she possibly "heard something about me" and has "backed off", but that's not plausible as - I only just met this group and they nothing from my past or any of my usual friends and the fact that I haven't done anything either!

 

Thankyou!

[Stay_home]

I hate when people leave me to figure out things instead of just telling me what the scoop is.

[asthesparrow]

She's incredibly shy. All these things you mentioned are things I do when I'm interested in a guy.

Next time you see her in a group setting, pull her aside when you leave and ask if she wants to do something with you (obviouly one on one)

OR after she goes to hug your friend, go in and give her a hug. It ain't hard...

[donkzilla]

Sparrow, I was thinking that she's either not interested at ALL or is in fact interested but is shy and self conscious as you've mentioned yourself. I'm not 100% sure, but that first time she was so talkative and i didn't think she was shy at all, but yeah, since then it's been quite different as I mentioned previously. It's just very hard to tell with girls, it's like they either act very interested or not interested at all (even though they may be) and it's quite annoying! It requires alot of confidence to ask a girl out and it's much better doing it knowing that she definitely likes you. So, from what I've mentioned in this thread and the previous one, you've gathered that she is in fact probably interested? Thanks!