Lozak Posted January 23, 2011 Share Posted January 23, 2011 So, let's try and keep this short. Scenario: attractive girl with fun, unique personality, met through a mutual friend a few years back, just started recently texting each other on a semi-regular basis. As said above, we just recently started talking without the involvement of our mutual friend. Just texting every now and again, not every day stuff. She texts me one day, and the conversation goes as such (alternating back and forth, with the first being her): wyd?! Not much, you? wyd??? ....not much, you? lol i just finished running Cool, how was it? um im tryig to hint lik do you wanna hangout rit now lol So we go for dinner, both have a pretty good time. A couple of her friends happened to show up and prolong a conversation, but that's the only thing to complain about. We get back to my house, and before I can say anything she throws out "I've gotta use your bathroom." So, that winds up with her hanging out, just us watching TV. Nothing happens. A couple days after that I text her and ask if she wants to hang out when she gets off of work, and she says she doesn't have her car, but will talk to me later that night; I don't hear from her. Few days later, a friend and I were going to grab something to eat, and she calls just before, so I invite her. My friend winds up bringing his girlfriend, so it was somewhat of an accidental double date thing. Dinner, movie, again nothing happens. Last night, she calls and asks what I have planned. I tell her, and she asks if I minded if she invited herself, so of course I say no. She tags along with me and a few friends to a couple of bars, and we wind up back at my friend's house, drinking (we were all pretty drunk by this point). During one of the games, one of my friends says "If I roll a , you gotta kiss him." He of course did, and it was just a little peck on the lips. I bring her home, and she gives me a kiss on the cheek before I could go in for anything more, and thus ends the night. So the general idea I have is that she does like me. I'm not really putting huge importance on the small kiss, as I think she felt pressured into it. All the times we hang out, we're constantly making eye contact, some physical contact, etc. The issues I have is that I'm a pretty damn non-confident guy. I've never had a girlfriend, so I have it set in my head that I'm not good enough for anyone, that nobody could ever want to be with me, all that jazz that's frequently appearing on these boards. Also, every time we talk the conversation ends with her not texting back. So hopefully that wasn't too long of a rant - input, please? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bostonbruins44 Posted January 24, 2011 Share Posted January 24, 2011 Are you nuts? Of course she is interested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
awdj Posted January 24, 2011 Share Posted January 24, 2011 Clearly she is interested. Make your move next time you see her, she isn't waiting forever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lozak Posted January 26, 2011 Author Share Posted January 26, 2011 I plan to, and I know it's completely obvious that she's at least somewhat interested, but she's really difficult to read. One minute she's flirty and talkative, and the next (like now) I can't get in touch with her to save me life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lozak Posted January 27, 2011 Author Share Posted January 27, 2011 Well she stopped responding to my texts (sent her something today and Tuesday, both with no reply), so I suppose I'll just take the hint. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
savignon Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 Well she stopped responding to my texts (sent her something today and Tuesday, both with no reply), so I suppose I'll just take the hint. She could have been waiting for you to do something more than pick up on all her hints. Work on your lack of confidence. Call her and ask her out instead of texting all the time. Take the bull by the horns....having to chase a guy is no fun and girls back off after awhile when they're doing all the work. If nothing comes of this particular situation, you still need to work on your confidence or this will happen all over again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MizzNatalie Posted January 27, 2011 Share Posted January 27, 2011 step up your game and ask her out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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