snowflake04 Posted January 23, 2011 Share Posted January 23, 2011 I'm a young adult, and the person i'm talking to is also a young adult. I'm not used to dating, previous relationships have been highschool romances and teenage flings. I started talking to this guy a week ago, he's came to see me at lunch every day all week, the first four days we just talked and got to know each other better. On Friday we began to kiss, and we went to the movies on Friday night. He held me the entire time, and we made out, and he kissed my forehead, he made it feel comfortable like we'd been together a while. I was getting the vibe he's into me. But in previous relationships i've had the problem of getting upset over the guy not texting back during the day or whatever, because i always had the time and avaliability to text the guy back when i was out with my friends. And thats all the guy is really doing, hanging out with friends. For some reason i assume that if the guy doesnt give me constant attention he isn't interested. So the guy i'm talking to now, has been spending the day hanging out with some friends, and takes hours sometimes to reply to a text. is he still interested? and i'm over reacting. or am i right and if he was interested he would keep the conversation going like i do when im out with friends? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guynextdoor Posted January 23, 2011 Share Posted January 23, 2011 His is dating you, he has his own social life too. May I ask why you seek constant attention? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowflake04 Posted January 23, 2011 Author Share Posted January 23, 2011 I'm not sure, it's always been this way. I sorta believe in the Sigmund Fruied theory, something that happened as a child, and affects you without you realizing it when older. My parents seemed to always be busy when I was a child, so that may be part of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guynextdoor Posted January 23, 2011 Share Posted January 23, 2011 Reality is snowflake its going to be difficult to find a man that would sacrifice his social life to revolve around you. Just not going to happen. If he is busy he will get back with you later. I honestly don't like to be smothered 24/7 nor do I want to smother my SO either. Relax, make some time for yourself or have your girls night out and let boys be boys. GL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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