ella79 Posted January 21, 2011 Share Posted January 21, 2011 Ok so met amazing guy several weeks ago. Talked for a few weeks before first date...great chemistry... Can talk about anything etc. Meet in person and it got even better. We have been on several dates over the last week and enjoy each other more and more. He communicates well, is funny, caring, attractive etc. He makes me feel good and all that. However tha nagging voice in my head is still there saying he's just gonna drop me. I am doing really good with not letting that fear show. How can I relax and just enjoy him etc? I know he's not like other guys I've been with but I can not seem to rid that fear from me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guynextdoor Posted January 21, 2011 Share Posted January 21, 2011 Try to relax, enjoy the moment. Lingering thoughts like that would ruin any date or potential mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucasky Posted January 21, 2011 Share Posted January 21, 2011 I ALWAYS struggle with this. *Sigh* and I've been in a relationship for 10months now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ForumGuy Posted January 22, 2011 Share Posted January 22, 2011 Hopefully you can get some good advice and follow it. I wish I had some good advice for you. Fears like this are poison to a relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snny Posted January 22, 2011 Share Posted January 22, 2011 It helps to tell yourself that you new guy is different than the old guy and to give him a chance. The last boyfriend got dumped for a reason so it's not fair to compare both of them. Dating is learning about others and yourself. Chill out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coyote1980 Posted January 23, 2011 Share Posted January 23, 2011 I'm on the same boat.... One month into a relationship, I'm already tired of keeping the fear inside. I'm wondering if telling him about it would help, but I'm not sure if that's a good idea. ever thought of telling him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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