ben1515 Posted January 21, 2011 Share Posted January 21, 2011 I broke up with my fiance 3 years ago. We met on the Internet. A online dating service. She was from South America and I am from the United States. I thought she was my soul mate but she never really trusted me. I never cheated on her physically. Ultimately, the distance factor and personality clashes ended the relationship. She never trusted me. I guess it was a Latino thing, as people say. In her culture jealousy is seen as a positive trait - in the USA a negative trait. But even after all these years my thoughts still return to my lost love. There have been others. But they were just shadows of her. I never wrote her after the relationship ended. My pride was too injured. My ego too big. I know in life we have to life with our memories. Good and bad. I want to make amends but after all these years would seem foolish. I know she really hates me. The relationship did not end well. Things were said which should not have been said. So what should be done? Perhaps these are just musings now. But perhaps someone out there has a similar story. The Internet is a big place. Millions of stories are floating out there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sidehop Posted January 21, 2011 Share Posted January 21, 2011 Let her go. If it's been three years I'm sure she's with someone or moved on completely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oceandream Posted January 21, 2011 Share Posted January 21, 2011 If it was me, I would contact her, tell her how you feel and what you told us, but if she doesnt feel the same then let her go. You don't want to spend you're life asking what if? Someone i know had a long distance relationship, they broke up for about 4 years and then got back together and are now married. But then again, if you did get back together, would one of you be willing to relocate for the other? Otherwise you will have the same issues again. And what if she is seeing someone else? Is there anyway you can find out if she is single? She could be married with kids for all you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
resilient7 Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 did you ever meet her and how many times,my ex had the same problems with her first love and were set to move in together he was planning to move to her country to be with her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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