thunderchiefj Posted January 19, 2011 Share Posted January 19, 2011 Here's my dilemma folks. My girlfriend and I fell in love at first site while she was attending a school reunion in Maryland. During her time there we spent quality time together and were intimate the 1st night. Although her stay there was brief we could not wait to see each other again. Hours and hours on Skype we became familiar with one another. 3 weeks after she came back to see me and we spent 3 romantic days in the nations capitol. Her departure was painful for both of us. We began planning for the future. We would work 6 mos. and save and she and her 2 sons 14 and 17 would move up to Maryland. One big happy family....however shortly after she left my roomate showed her alcoholic attributes and I had to get out of dodge sooooon... I thought about moving in with sister. But she asked if I would consider coming to Florida. I needed to think about that. I hate Florida, but for her anything I thought. I packed it up and moved here. Dec 1st our second anniversary. I arrived, she had a welcome home sign and all that stuff. Trying to make me feel welcome. Everything was fine until. She made a comment about me not being the man she thought I was....and it was my personality she thought was not compatible to hers. She began getting moody and by Dec. 26 she had this face of death. I DONT THINK THIS IS WORKING SHE SAID. Your not the man I thought you were and I don't feel the love anymore. OMG 1000MILES * * * I thought. Yep she said that... On a different note...She is a realtor thus in this economic era nothing is moving and shes exhausting her resources fast. I contribute as much as I can with food and cleaning and detailing her car..massaging her herniated disk in her back for looooong periods and then her feet... then long oral stimulation if your allowed to say that on here. I do a very thorough job, and then sex. Good sex. But she is not affectionate any longer. She complains and is sarcastic at times. But she does quite a bit for me as well. She's from Colombia she loves doing house work and laundry. She wants me to move out. I have agreed but am waiting on a really good job....however the background check is taking for friggin ever and I seem like a bum while Im waiting. I do alot around the house alot and alot of role modeling for the kids as well. It's just she's so miserable.....she loves the intimacy but has a very hard time being loving and sweet. I DONT WANT TO GIVE YU THE WRONG IMPRESSION SHE SAYS. So why the are you letting me have you most nights. Please someone give me some perspective..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LDRohnos Posted January 19, 2011 Share Posted January 19, 2011 She's using you for sex at this point? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catfeeder Posted January 20, 2011 Share Posted January 20, 2011 You moved in with a stranger. Not a good idea. Do what it takes to get out of there. If that means staying with family for a while, then do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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