Mills Posted January 19, 2011 Share Posted January 19, 2011 So for the past couple of weeks I have let my ex mostly do the contacting when we talk... it's been going pretty well, so far....a couple days ago he randomly asked me if I've gone on any dates recently.. I said "I dont wanna talk about this".. he said "Why, bad experience?" I said "no.." He's like "so whats the big deal? lol" I said.. "ok, well T asked me out last week but I bailed bc a friend was in town" (which is true) and I told him about a mutual friend of ours that keeps bugging me to hang out, but Im completely not interested in this guy. lol...also, he asked me what I did over the weekend, and I said nothing, I stayed in Saturday night and watched a movie.. he said "with who?" lol ahhh... anyway, why is he asking things like that? If he supposedly doesn't care or want to be with me then why ask? I don't get it. A friend told me it's probably bc he thinks Im moving on bc of another guy, when really it's just bc I don't care - or at least that's the front I put up.. I've gotten good at hiding my emotions from him anymore.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
takkforalt Posted January 19, 2011 Share Posted January 19, 2011 He is either interested in you or he doesn't want to commit and at the same time he does not want you to move on with someone else.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sidehop Posted January 19, 2011 Share Posted January 19, 2011 Are you sure he didn't initially break up with you for another girl? Maybe it's the same reason right now, he already has someone and know he won't get back together with you so asking how your life is. He also maybe trying to keep you on the 'side'. You mentioned about hook ups here and there in another thread. If this guy isn't giving you clear indication that he wants to get back together then you really need to cut him loose especially if you're wanting to get back with him. He clearly isn't showing you that sign. You don't want to keep hoping and get hurt more in a long run you know? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mills Posted January 19, 2011 Author Share Posted January 19, 2011 Nah, he definitely didn't break up with me for another girl... we have not hooked up in a good while... in fact I havent seen him at all in almost 2 weeks. Im not necessarily wanting to get back with him, I honestly dont know what I want from him right now, I just take it day by day. I was just curious as to why he's asking me questions like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnm3 Posted January 19, 2011 Share Posted January 19, 2011 he wants to make sure you're still accessible if he changes his mind -- why are you still in contact with this creep? didn't we establish earlier that he is, in all practical meanings, a pedophile? this guy will bring you nothing but pain -- do yourself a favor and move on. it will hurt for a while, but it will be acute pain, not chronic, which is what you will have by keeping in touch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XSamsaraX Posted January 19, 2011 Share Posted January 19, 2011 I don't think that you owe it to your ex, neither are you obligated to let him know what you are up to these days. I personally would not have told him. It's none of his business what you are doing now, who you may be dating, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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