bri427 Posted January 18, 2011 Share Posted January 18, 2011 i recently got back with my ex fiance...and while at first it felt amazing now im kicking myself in the butt dreading it. he already has made me cry numerous times in these first couple weeks....and honestly i blame noone but myself. the games he plays, the lies he tells, the pian he causes...almost 3 years later and it dont seem like he's learned anything. i reached the conclusion this morning...after fiding out he wwent to the movies with some girls sat AFTER he told me he was going to bed...that maybe my newfound strength needs to be put towards finally kicking him to the curb. i use to think i needed him to understand what he does is wrong...but its not right for me to babysit him and make him grow up...thats not my job. sigh...i just told him its done. im shaking and crying AT school. sometimes walking away is the only way to really heal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
damagedatbest Posted January 18, 2011 Share Posted January 18, 2011 What? He went to the movies with some girls without you after telling you he was going to bed? And this is supposed to be your fiancee?? I think you did the right thing, he clearly doesnt respect you or your relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cocopuffs239 Posted January 18, 2011 Share Posted January 18, 2011 im sry for the way you feel, sometimes love can suck(i should know about this and almost everyone here can too) but its better to have love and lost than not have loved at all, i can easily say i had the best time with my ex she hands down was the best gf i ever had i will always miss her and want her, but just like you said sometimes there is no choice but just to go and not look back, and i know this can hurt or it may even not in you case, but if he is seeing other chicks behind your back then thats just wrong, my ex left me for her 9th grade ex, it sucked * * * * it really did, but its being about aalmost 2 months since this happened and iv being finding out her bf left her she lost her best friend cuz she now talks to me instead of her, and now she contacted my step bro to find out about me and her ex best friend, im kind of happy that this is going on i really dont wish her anything bad but * * * * her lol she left me now shes horrible...but anyways you should have the same attitude he did that to you so screw him, if you want him back later in the future then thats great if not thats probably even better, just believe in ur self and that you can do better if you want did he leave you or did you leave him when you first broke up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GotMyLifeBack Posted January 19, 2011 Share Posted January 19, 2011 Bri, I've always thought your posts were remarkably insightful and helpful. I hate seeing you being dragged through this with this guy. Believe me, I know what it's like to be attached to someone who is reckless with my feelings. I hope you do what you need to do so you're not messed with anymore. You deserve much better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Seeker Posted January 19, 2011 Share Posted January 19, 2011 Yay Bri for ending the stupid cycle! Go forward girl! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bri427 Posted January 19, 2011 Author Share Posted January 19, 2011 thanks all GotMyLifeBack- i appreciate that, means alot. i will work on standing up for myself more...which has improved immensely over this past year. i do not want to set myself back. and deff not with the same person...he either will learn...or continue his messed up behavior. no matter what...im still strong and an amazing person Seeker- hehe thanks chica. glad i got u in my corner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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