Tempest Desh Posted January 18, 2011 Share Posted January 18, 2011 Okay, so here's the story: I went with a friend to a sushi place in San Diego. We had a pretty nice meal and the evening went pretty well. The girl waiting on us was pretty cute and friendly and was sending me all sorts of signals, with her behavior. Whenever she walked away from the table, she'd glance over her shoulder, blushing when she saw me, giggling nervously, etc. Hence, I decided to introduce myself and ask for her number. I feel like I asked her a little too early at that point (my friend is of the same opinion). She told me that it was against her workplace's policy for waiters/waitresses to exchange numbers, etc. with customers. I played it off in a non-chalant manner. As the evening continued, my friend and I had our meal. Things were pretty slow at this point and the waitress, for pretty long stretches of time, stood by our table and chatted with us. We had a pretty decent conversation and laughed at each other's jokes, etc., which caused the time to pass smoothly. At the conclusion of our meal, as we were leaving, this girl decided to hand me a business card for the place and told me that I could call and ask for her. By all signs, she seemed interested. However I wasn't able to call her this weekend, as I was busy with work and fencing, among other things. I still want to hit her up and see if there's a chance of grabbing some coffee sometime or so...however, for one thing, I'm not sure how long is too long to wait to call her, since she told me that she works weekends. The main thing really is the whole 'calling her at work' deal. I wouldn't want to cause her any trouble with her boss...but that's the only number I have to call her at 0_o. Just looking for some advice on how to handle this. Thanks in advance. See ya on the flipside, Tempest Desh P.S.: Funny thing is, when she tried to guess my age, she thought I was somewhere between 19 and 21 (I'm 24). She's 18 and finishing up high school, while taking some college classes (I didn't know this, till she mentioned it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thejigsup Posted January 18, 2011 Share Posted January 18, 2011 Please don't call her at work. That is uncool and I'm sure her boss won't like it. If that's the only # she gave you, go back and ask her for HER number. If she won't give it to you, forget about her. The work number thing is kinda lame. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shuttlefish Posted January 18, 2011 Share Posted January 18, 2011 Go back there for a meal a week later, if she remembers you then take that as a positive. Waitress can't really be trusted as far as dating interest is concerned. They can't really tell you to bugger off if they are not interested and they are usually gunning for tips. Are you sure she's not the owner's daughter - that would explain the business card. I woulnd't call her at work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tempest Desh Posted January 18, 2011 Author Share Posted January 18, 2011 The girl herself is from Vietnam, while the owner is from Hawaii and is Korean...from what I gathered, it didn't sound like they were related. I'm just wondering how exactly to got about avoiding as much awkwardness as possible, assuming that i still get positive vibes from her, say this weekend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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