epiclove Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 Curious, for the last couple of weeks we have been talking a bit more (by more, I mean we each are able to send messages with the other responding in a decent time). Today we were suppose to go hiking but her family decided to go on a last minute trip to Reno so we postponed our hangout until next Friday. When she told me about the change of plans, I got kinda annoyed because a few months earlier she had flaked on me completely. She noticed that I was annoyed and told me to not take it personal, and that she was sorry and DOES want to see me. I apologized and told her that everything was fine. She texts me later on, and suggest to her that we do something a bit more that she would be into, like inline skating around town. She seemed excited by that and that is currently on the agenda for next Friday. I still like her....A LOT and I am not sure if this is just a 'friend' thing, or that she may be somewhat interested in me again. A few months back I told her I still have feelings for her, and she sent me a message telling me that 'whatever happens, happens'. Ladies what do you think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
savignon Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 Sounds like she's still up for the possibility of getting back together with the "whatever happens, happens" kind of thinking. Plus she's still contacting you and wanting to see you, making plans with you etc. Sounds promising. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yostina Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 I agree with savignon. Sounds she is interested and up for spending more time with you. Maybe she wants to take things slow and explore the possibility of you being together again. Time will tell, just take it slow and keep your cool up. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epiclove Posted January 17, 2011 Author Share Posted January 17, 2011 Thanks for the responses! My friend told me the same thing. When we were on the phone together, she even asked me kinda out of the blue about my love life. I am going to take it really slow and keep everyone updated Anymore opinions? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tricia23 Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 I'm in a similar position just like yours. My ex and I have been on very LC with each other. He reached out to me 2 weeks ago, and asked me to dinner. We've met up every weekend, since then. We really seem to enjoy each others company. He certainly acts like we are a couple when we are together. It's been great. I'd definitely take things slow, as I am. Take things a say at a time, and really enjoy each other. Show her and yourself that your past relationship is over, and you can both start a new fun and different relationship. Don't talk about any problems/issues that could cause friction. Just have fun! I hope things continue to work out for you! Hopefully we both are on the right path, and we can have the happy ending we are longing for! Good Luck! =) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
professorplum Posted January 18, 2011 Share Posted January 18, 2011 How long have you guys been apart and how did you get messaging each other again? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epiclove Posted January 18, 2011 Author Share Posted January 18, 2011 We broke up in March 2010. I asked her to not contact me for awhile, or at least until she wanted to try things again. I told her it was because I loved her too much. She agreed. She then texts me out of the blue just asking me "how I was doing". I responded in a kind of nonchalance manner. I asked her the reason as to why she was contacting me, and she told me it was because she wanted to check up on me. This all happened in the summer. I moved back to the same area as her in Fall and contacted her. We went out for frozen yogurt, and went back to my car where a bit of groping commenced. She told me not to do it again (like I was the only one touching), and I texted her later apologizing in case I made her feel uncomfortable. She told me not to worry about it. I told her that I liked her and what if things escalated like they did again. She told me NOT to worry about it. To confirm what she was saying, I asked her, "so are you saying whatever happens between us, happens? Go with the flow" She said yes. This was around October/ Novemberish. I stopped talking to her because I was confused. She texted me a few times just trying to see how I was doing and what my plans were for the holiday. I responded each time in a nonchalant sort of manner. Finally I decided to call her, and she told me that she was happy I called because she was about to stop contacting me because she thought that I didn't want to talk to her anymore. Now we are talking a bit more, and we are suppose to go roller skating "from city to city" as she calls it this Friday. Sorry for the long post, but hope this answers your question prof. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
professorplum Posted January 18, 2011 Share Posted January 18, 2011 I have to agree that there are some promising signs here and that you appear to have dealt with this very well. You sound as if you have been very restrained up till this point. How have you managed it? There have been sufficient months for you both to re-evaluate and although I get the impression she does not know what she wants for sure, she is certainly making an effort to pursue this. I really hope you don't get hurt but I am pleased and excited for you. As everyone says if you go into this kind of thing with hope but not expectation then you will be prepared for most eventuality. There should be plenty of opportunities to see how things are between you and where you go from here. My best wishes to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epiclove Posted January 18, 2011 Author Share Posted January 18, 2011 Thanks for the response prof.! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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