beachgrl Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 I was fooling around with this guy, and he fingered me rather hard. I mean like 4 fingers and it got kinda rough. I didnt even know i was bleeding but then I started bleeding heavy. I just got my period 2 weeks ago, so I know i didn't start my period. I have had a baby and am in my 30's, so its not like i am a young unexperienced girl. But boy that was totally embarassing and I didnt know what to think.](*,) Any ideas? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 4 fingers??????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beachgrl Posted January 17, 2011 Author Share Posted January 17, 2011 Yes....I know its crazy....ha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 well, it sounds like you are fine. next time, tell him not to use so many. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beachgrl Posted January 17, 2011 Author Share Posted January 17, 2011 LOL, i am it was just weird. He thought i was on my period, as if i would let him do that if i was. I would have been on lockdown lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snowy Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 How can it possibly fit 4 fingers. O.O Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VixiT Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 my very very ex tried to put the whole hand but maximum it was 4 fingers. I was told by him that he had had an experiance of fisting before and his ex gf had had really srtong feelings of it. So he tried to repeat the same with me, but didn't work out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SongCoyote Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 Finger capacity varies considerably from woman to woman, just like "depth" and other physical attributes. It can also be expanded with patience, care, and practice. As to the OP question, bleeding from rough hand-play generally occurs from two sources: too much too fast, resulting in a tear in skin or vaginal lining, and/or poor hand grooming (especially long and/or sharp fingernails) resulting in a cut in skin or vaginal lining. Neither tends to be serious if the hand was clean and the bleeding stops promptly. The first problem is best addressed by communication. If things are too rough, tell your lover so! Of course, sometimes in the heat of the moment you don't feel it, as endorphins are doing their business, but if you're not comfortable with the act or results, talk it out and find some good boundaries. Also, give yourself a little time to heal after such an event before trying rough again (assuming you wish to). The latter problem can be handled with (obviously) careful grooming of the nails and cuticles, and even more so if he (or she; this is certainly not a het-only activity!) wears a latex or, for the allergic, nitrile glove and uses some glove-safe lube. You can get both at your local pharmacy / drugstore, or online at places like Good Vibes, which I recommend. Balance fun with care, keep lines of communication open, and be good to your not-so-naughty bits! Light and laughter, SongCoyote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PaintWithLight Posted January 18, 2011 Share Posted January 18, 2011 It sounds like he went overboard and might have nicked you with one of his fingernails. Either that or he injured you withl a tear in your vaginal wall from being too vigorous. You will know in a day or two when you feel a slight ouch. Give everything a chance to rest for a bit. Take Coyote's advice in the future. Have fun! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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