Sad Lisa Posted January 16, 2011 Share Posted January 16, 2011 My BF is 20 yrs older than me. I love him so much. We have very good time together. I expressed my feelings in an explicated way. I share with him my thoughts. But I feel that he has not opened his heart to me yet. Even though in the closest moment, I sensed that he did not tell me his true feelings. I know he likes me a lot. Otherwise we cannot have maintained on-off-on for over 5 years regardless lost of struggling. But I don’t know if he loves me. I really want to yell to him. We are not young anymore. It is difficult to find someone loves you as much as I do. Why are you holding your feet? I am just overwhelmed. Any suggestions? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
civilservant Posted January 16, 2011 Share Posted January 16, 2011 Why dont you just ask him? That seems fairly obvious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
savignon Posted January 16, 2011 Share Posted January 16, 2011 5 years on and off doesn't suggest "love" as much as confusion, not sure, and maybe doing what's convenient. I agree to just ask him how he feels. Saying "please stay...no one will love you like I do" is not genuine....it's desperate. What you might really be feeling is "I know that I'd like to be with you and you already know what I have to offer after 5 years. How are you feeling about our relationship and future together?" and if he's not the same page, re-evaluate the potential of the relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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