been confused for a long time about a guy friend of mine

[marilyn25]

I've been pretty close friends with this guy for the last year or so. He had just gotten out of a bad relationship when we first started hanging out so I never pushed a relationship and nothing ever happened between us. He admitted he liked me one time, then I got a new job and we went through a two month period of not talking. I got tired of waiting on him and started seeing someone else, which I know he knows about even though I never admitted it. He was talking to someone else too so I don't know if it matters or not. Anyway, he texted me about a month ago and we hung out a few times....then I didn't hear from him for two weeks because of personal issues he was having....I'm probably stupid to believe it but I do. Then we ended up hooking up finally and it seems to be back to the same bs it always ends up being. I know he's been going through some really hard times but I'm tired of being pushed away and don't know if I should say something about it or even try to hang out with him at all anymore. I mean everything is cool between us but I'm tired of wondering about it it's been a mystery to me for the last year.