tujna Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 We were together for 7 years and separated for 16 months. We kept in touch with two periods of NC for about 3 months, after which he would always contact me. A month ago we talked and I asked him if we would ever see each other again. He could not give me a straight answer. Then, I told him that I can never talk to him again. It is the first time since we know each other that was able to say such thing to him. He answered with even more confusing answer - that we will be always living what we had in his mind and heart. I did not give in and did not respond. Couple of days ago he called me. It was at an unusual time, so I thought he might be in trouble and became worried. Sent a message telling him that he is allowed to call me if something important has happened. He did not call. I guess I should interpret that to mean that there was nothing important. But why would he call me after I asked him not to!! I am really strong sometimes, other times I am just so weak. I just want to move on. Time to give chance to other guys. Thoughts anyone? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WindowTo Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 My thoughts are that you obviously want to take your chances with other guys, and that your actions are best suited for that decision. Your actions line up with your desires given what you have been to work with. Good job! Stick with it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Seeker Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Read my journal. I posted some quotes from other members if I were to get in the same situation as someone else. It might help answer your questions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tujna Posted January 12, 2011 Author Share Posted January 12, 2011 Omg, if only it were that easy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Seeker Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Omg, if only it were that easy! LOL What? Do you need help finding my journal? Is that what you were asking? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tujna Posted January 12, 2011 Author Share Posted January 12, 2011 Omg, if only it were that easy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tujna Posted January 12, 2011 Author Share Posted January 12, 2011 Moving on! I found your journal but have not had the time to read it yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Seeker Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 Moving on! I found your journal but have not had the time to read it yet. Oh okay! Have fun reading it. LOL I tend to ramble on! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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