spring2507 Posted January 11, 2011 Share Posted January 11, 2011 ok so i recently got introduced to a group of my boyfriends friends from school. They love me and think im great.....one girl in the group i found a bit suspicious as in i felt like she had a crush on my boyfriend but then i saw another guy from the group was her boyfriend so i disregarded my suspicions ....anyways fast forwarding to a month after that i find out my boyfriend and her had a lil fling and i broke up with him for a month and recently got back with him because i decided to give him a second chance (we been together for 4 years) and something told me he deserved a second chance. Anyways 2 guys from the group knew the whole situation that had happned between me and my bf because i told them. They didn't open their mouth until recently because they see that my bf has put a distance between him and her and she seems to still try to be a little to friendly with him...they told me that they had by mistake told two other people from the group because they all want to confront her bf about it since he is a good guy and this isnt the first time that she has done this. She has done it with other people within the group flirting with their bfs and going out alone with them......they are planning to confront him but someone went to her and told her that they are planning on telling her bf...idk if she is going to go and tell my bf that i told people about it......should i tell my bf what is going on ??...what should i do in this situation......im all for her getting a reality check and her bf deserving better but i dont want this to affect me and my bf negatively since we been through enough with it and we are in the process of repairing our relationship ps please don't question why i stayed with my boyfriend and also when they tell her boyfriend should they say it was with my boyfriend and details of what happened or should they generalize it. and also should i tell my boyfriend what is going on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cm17 Posted January 12, 2011 Share Posted January 12, 2011 It sounds like you should let him know you let things slip. He should understand, after all you must have been upset when you told them! Not to mention talking a little behind his back when you two were broken up is absolutely not as bad as cheating... Just let him know you're feeling a bit bad about sharing however you had no idea it would be spread around and manifest in drama. It will be better if he hears it from you than through the grapevine. I don't think he could be mad, however its crucial to start off on the right foot with open communication. Good Luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spring2507 Posted January 12, 2011 Author Share Posted January 12, 2011 It sounds like you should let him know you let things slip. He should understand, after all you must have been upset when you told them! Not to mention talking a little behind his back when you two were broken up is absolutely not as bad as cheating... Just let him know you're feeling a bit bad about sharing however you had no idea it would be spread around and manifest in drama. It will be better if he hears it from you than through the grapevine. I don't think he could be mad, however its crucial to start off on the right foot with open communication. Good Luck should i try to convince my boyfriend to come clean about it to the guy...since his other friends are planning on saying something or should i not tell him that they are planning to Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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