milkyway17 Posted January 11, 2011 Share Posted January 11, 2011 ever since we broke up, he started hanging out with this new group of friends. I don't know why this bothers me so much, but it does. In one of our classes, we only knew each other... but now since he has the new group of friends he's gotten closer to a girl Elise, who's also in our class. I think I may be a little jealous but she is involved with a guy so I don't think that my X is going to be getting together with her, so that's not the problem. For some reason, every time he talks to her and stuff, it hurts so much. Today, he wasn't even going to sit next to me, and sit next to her instead in class. And right now he's hanging out with her, and someone else. It's killing me, but I don't know why it is, and that I don't know why is making it even harder because I can't even explain! He's amicable towards me, so I don't have any reason to be upset. Yet I am. Why am I upset just because he's made some new friends? I think it may be because it's physical evidence that he's moved on. Like he's completely forgotten me already. And it makes me feel like I'm not special to him anymore, which I'm not since I'm not dating him anymore. It hurts to think that I'm not different from any other friend he has anymore. I've been doing so well lately but this issue is just really upsetting me... why does it hurt so much? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SapphireNoir10 Posted January 11, 2011 Share Posted January 11, 2011 You have to face the worst. He will eventually see someone else. You need to stop focusing/worrying on what hes doing, who hes seeing etc. Break ups are a grieving process, someone you were close to sometimes becoems a virtual stranger. It does get easier though I promise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Dark Posted January 11, 2011 Share Posted January 11, 2011 Why does it hurt so much. My signature says why. Just because there is not visible physical damage it does not mean you are ok. Many people can not get that through their thick skulls. Even when they have been there themselves because they think they can shut the pain out. Time is the healer. Waiting for the memories to fade, buried by the new ones of each day. Just try not to do anything dumb during the grieving process. Although I know it can be hard when we so desperately need to erase the pain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SapphireNoir10 Posted January 11, 2011 Share Posted January 11, 2011 Time is definatley the best healer. It helps fade and numb the pain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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