mercurial100 Posted June 7, 2010 Share Posted June 7, 2010 Most of you know my story by now (ex left due to GIGS, said she was unhappy but completely out of the blue). As I write this I feel much better than I did a month ago when I iniated NC. The day she moved out she told me she loved me but was not in love with me - this made me angry as the day before she told my family she loved me at a family meal - I slammed the door in her face and walked off. The day she moved out she sent quite a few messages saying "we need to talk", sad faces etc..which I ignored. She then sent a message once I had deleted her on facebook saying that as I was ignoring her I obviously wanted to be left alone and that is what she would do - the result was NC for a month. I want to keep NC but the last few days I have started to feel a little guilty about how I initiated the NC. I want her to know that whilst I know we can't be together I do still think about her and I don't hate her, which is no doubt the impression I have left. I know her brother, he's on FB - is it worth me saying "pass my regards on to xxx) next time I talk to him - or should I leave it completely? We had an amazing relationship (or so I thought) and she had been my best friend four years - I dont want her to think I hate her because I don't..I do want her to know how much she let me down though. Link to comment
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