iBroken Posted June 7, 2010 Share Posted June 7, 2010 So for those of you who pine for your ex to return, get over it and move on. Cause if they come back, its not going to work again. My reconciliation is over.......5 days before we were supposed to go to vegas for my birthday (her present) a week before my birthday and less then 2 months before we were supposed to move in together. I was upset, and I pleaded. But its been 24 hours and im indifferent. She broke her promise to me........thats enough to say Eff it. So here I am back in this forum.......only this time, I will divide and conquer The best revenge is to live a fulfilling life. Holler! Link to comment
Cheetarah Posted June 7, 2010 Share Posted June 7, 2010 iBroken, I'm sorry. I'm totally with you on the 'eff it'. Link to comment
jenna-is-here Posted June 7, 2010 Share Posted June 7, 2010 So here I am back in this forum.......only this time, I will divide and conquer The best revenge is to live a fulfilling life. Holler! Yes! And now you know for sure that it would not have worked. And I admire that you can leave with a peace of mind. Let me get back to fulfilling my life! Link to comment
JonasWaingaro Posted June 7, 2010 Share Posted June 7, 2010 aww, sorry to hear this iBroken. ((bighugs)) I had hopes for you guys. I suppose it really is difficult to go back. Maybe it's time for the eNA road to trip to vegas! hehe Hang in there! Link to comment
uncomfynumb Posted June 7, 2010 Share Posted June 7, 2010 (Taking the bottle in JonasWaingaro's picture) Here's to finding something better girl. ((hugs)) and cheers. Link to comment
iBroken Posted June 7, 2010 Author Share Posted June 7, 2010 I know I deserve better. Im starting to see this. She promised me she would stand by me through thick and thin - now she doesnt have the patience to deal with my insecurities. I triggered on the regular seeing her rebound all the time, but I plowed through for her, and US. I had a relapse for a week and had some serious insecurities and shes had enough - less then 6 months in. Pfft. On to the next Link to comment
pumpkinmoon Posted June 7, 2010 Share Posted June 7, 2010 So for those of you who pine for your ex to return, get over it and move on. Cause if they come back, its not going to work again. My reconciliation is over.......5 days before we were supposed to go to vegas for my birthday (her present) a week before my birthday and less then 2 months before we were supposed to move in together. I was upset, and I pleaded. But its been 24 hours and im indifferent. She broke her promise to me........thats enough to say Eff it. So here I am back in this forum.......only this time, I will divide and conquer The best revenge is to live a fulfilling life. Holler! I SECOND THIS ADVICE!!! And if they are worth taking back, make sure they mean what they say and don't fill you up with lies to get what they want. Link to comment
iBroken Posted June 7, 2010 Author Share Posted June 7, 2010 Bah - I already broke NC LOL It was a quick to the point email - no begging, no groveling, just a look at you kind of note LOL. It wasnt harsh. I think she needs to get some help and thats all it was. And that I would be by later to get some more of my stuff so make plans with friends if you havent done so already LOL On with the show! Link to comment
emma j Posted June 7, 2010 Share Posted June 7, 2010 Aw, i'm so sorry to hear this.. hugs. Like you a third reconciliation bites the dust.. thats the last one. We know that we gave it our all, we tried and i have no regrets. All we can do it move on and try and get on with our lives knowing that it just didn't work. What we wanted and needed was far from what we where getting. Link to comment
hater13 Posted June 7, 2010 Share Posted June 7, 2010 I guess it's time to take out the Johnnie Walker black label? lol my treat lol Link to comment
iBroken Posted June 8, 2010 Author Share Posted June 8, 2010 I broke NC again? * * * is wrong with me? Slap me up the head eNa. Fack Link to comment
FootofGod Posted June 8, 2010 Share Posted June 8, 2010 I broke NC again? * * * is wrong with me? Slap me up the head eNa. Fack I'm breaking NC as I type, so don't feel alone in your time of weakness Link to comment
quirky Posted June 8, 2010 Share Posted June 8, 2010 I'm feeling similar to you, you're not alone. Reread your posts, maybe there's no point to break NC? Link to comment
iBroken Posted June 8, 2010 Author Share Posted June 8, 2010 There isnt a point and I know this? I blame the rollercoaster. I was angry, mad, and at a few points throughout the day, HAPPY. Now im clearly crashing...feeling sorry for myself....for what, someone who cant be by my side? Ugh Ok - Im working on this again. I will wake up tomorrow and start new...unless we end up going to vegas LOL - doubtful......Im just waiting to see if I am worth cancelling a trip over and taking a financial loss LOL Link to comment
coolchick64 Posted June 8, 2010 Share Posted June 8, 2010 Sorry to hear things fell through. I think the second BU is easier to get over because you know you gave it everything you could and (if you're like me) you get mad faster. The first time around, maybe they were confused and didn't know what they were doing. The second time around, it's like, "Really? Are you kidding me?!" That's when you know for sure it's them and not you. It helps. Link to comment
iBroken Posted June 8, 2010 Author Share Posted June 8, 2010 Oh this is break up number 3 Im sure I wont suffer as much as before.......but the rollercoasters suck Link to comment
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