crazedand Posted June 7, 2010 Share Posted June 7, 2010 Not sure this is entirely the right area for this but here goes. So I have this pretty good friend living in the UK that I met while she was studying abroad at my university. I admit I'm most likely pretty deep in the friend zone with her, however there have been times when I've gotten vibes I may not be. Anyways, without beng too longwinded, I got the sense she was/is physically attracted to me, but it was hard to tell because she is quite touchy feely with most of her good guy friends that I knew while she was here. It just seemed a little more calculated with me, certain things (not remotely sexual) she did when we were Not in the company of mutual friends. On an emotional level it seemed like I was really in the friend zone, but heck if I know. So I got a nice message from her just after she left to go back to the UK (wont be seeing her in person for at least 7 months) that said she hopes I find a lady friend soon and that that lady will be one lucky lady. Question is, is there anything to read between the lines about that statement, or should I just leave it as a genuinely nice thing a friend says to another friend? Because that's what I regarded it as at first, then the mind wanders and ponders... I really like this girl, but the friend zone-ness vibe I get and the fact there's an ocean in the way really makes me question if there's any reason at all I should ever tell her (via skype/email, like before she comes back to visit) that I developed feelings for her, other than to just get it off my chest. I think it's a hail mary of a chance that she feels similarly, but I need to get it off my chest and do not want to regret not trying. Link to comment
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