Picked up my things at my ex today

[keith515]

Here's my story:

 

 

I didn't know what to expect but she was being nice. She had make up on and the place was real clean. She was helped me move my stuff. I couldn't really look at her and and was being fair cold.

 

As we were walking up the stairs she kept looking at me and then stopped and asked me if I was OK. I said that's a relative term.

 

Once we were done, I said I was going to giver her my parting words.

 

I told her I don't know what she did but I truly fell in love with her. I feel this was the first time in decades where I truly fell in love. Whether it was real or imagined, I felt it. I gave her a couple of digs like she was who she thought she was. I told her I was angry but yes, I was disappointed. I told her I wish I could say I hated her but I don't. I told her I was REALLY into her and didn't care at how far I had to drive to see her. I have a soft spot for her despite her breaking up with me out of the blue. Overall, the relationship was wonderful, or so I thought.

 

She told me she just felt that she had to end it because she didn't feel the same way I did. The reason she gave were merely to justify her feelings. She admitted she really don't know why she felt the way she did, she just did.

 

As were leaving, we were in a long embrace and said I'm a great guy and started crying because she didn't didn't feel the same way. She said she wished she did but didn't.

 

My final words to her was "I won't shut you out if you want to talk."

 

I didn't know what to expect when I came over there and I ended up feeling better because of it. Even though, she didn't feel the same way I did, it made me feel good that felt sad about it.

[nem69]

Its pretty much what I got with my ex. She may keep in contact for awhile but do not be suprised when it tails off. In her mind it is now finished and she will have dealt with her feelings.

[keith515]

Its pretty much what I got with my ex. She may keep in contact for awhile but do not be suprised when it tails off. In her mind it is now finished and she will have dealt with her feelings.

 

I don't expect her to contact me and I don't expect to do it myself. It seemed like she was sad that didn't feel the same way I did. There was nothing I could do.

[FrenchFries]

Sounds like you got the truth and closure. Hang in there.

[keith515]

Sounds like you got the truth and closure. Hang in there.

 

I actually feel like I did.