mercurial100 Posted June 6, 2010 Share Posted June 6, 2010 No idea why I am writing, I think I know the answer, but I want to ask anyway, if anything for moral support! Today is one month of NC and things slowly (really slowly) do get a little better. I am going to Spain in a couple of days for just under a week to spend some time with my friend, his gf and his family. Hopefully it will do me some good, we'll see. Anyway, my point is: I went to a wedding yesterday and was talking to the groom about my situation. He told me that he had GIGS with his gf, left her, trhee months later called her back and they clearly got married yesterday - 5 years down the line. My question is this: Do I have the "it's over, no chance of being together again" mentality or do I opt for a "continue to move on, continue to heal, if something/someone else comes along great but we'll see where I am in three or four months". The second "solution" seems the easier, but it doesn't wash away all hope. Washing away all hope seems harder. How would you go about it? The truth is she probably isn't right for me, I might have trust issues (she didn't cheat, or at least I dont think she did, but serious out of the blue GIGS) and over time I hope to find someone new (self-confidence issues at the moment etc..) but not writing off anything gives me some comfort. Link to comment
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