newwave Posted June 5, 2010 Share Posted June 5, 2010 There have been times I haven't been invited to weddings, but the majority of times have been people who weren't close to me. The one time I was not invited thought I should have was when I disapproved of the guy my former best friend was marrying. He was a sloppy high school dropout who had poor hygiene and without a job and I told her she could do better. As a a result she didn't invite me and we are no longer friends (not because of this incidentally, just that the friendship was over). I was hurt she didn't invite me, but in hindsight I don't care anymore. Anyway, my parents just found out that what they thought were so called close friends didn't invite them to their son's wedding. They invited lesser friends (including people that didn't even know the son). My parents are deeply hurt and have severed ties with the couple. No, it wasn't an issue of oversight or anything like that. Basically they not only didn't invite them, they hid it from my parents and my parents found out. It's a large wedding so no excuse about it being small. These were people my parents have had over many times for dinner and invited them to parties. How would you feel? I realize with weddings you can't invite everyone. I know if I marry there is a limit because I don't want to invite many people who aren't close to me and my fiance. That's not the issue here though. Link to comment
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