bridget Posted June 5, 2010 Share Posted June 5, 2010 My BF and I have only been together a couple of months. As well as being an LDR, it's been very whirlwind - we've fallen deeply in love already. He has told me that he thinks he used to be a commitmentphobe, but since meeting me, realises that he just hadn't met the right person yet. He says he has never loved anybody like he loves me. He has been in a couple of long term relationships but never reached the marriage/kids stage. That made me feel great - as I feel the same - despite a few long term relationships, I don't remember feeling this way before either. Until I looked up "commitmentphobe" on the internet and started reading about the classic signs... They shower you with love and affection - check. They tell you that you have a future together - check. Most importantly, they tell you that they have never felt this way before - CHECK! (before pulling away...and after only 2 months, we wouldn't have necessarily got to that yet.) I'm a bit worried now! But if he were a commitmentphobe, would he actually go as far as saying he used to be one?! Also, I have made my feelings clear to him all along too - and it doesn't seem to have scared him off (yet). He fits the early profile of a commitmentphobe perfectly. But maybe what he says is true - he really hasn't felt this way before. Am I worrying too much?! Link to comment
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