QueenOfHearts8 Posted June 5, 2010 Share Posted June 5, 2010 I've been with my boyfriend for a while and I'm now pregnant and feeling betrayed and I'm not sure what to do. Shortly after I found out I was pregnant I snooped through my boyfriend's cell phone. I had suspicions that something was up when he got very paranoid when I simply touched his phone and moved it. He was wondering what I was doing with it and what I was looking at. Of course I wasn't looking at anything but it made me wonder why he was so frantic about it. Anyway, I found texts to and from one of his ex girlfriends talking about how he wants her to be topless for him, he wants to see her in a lesbian porno, and he asked to meet up with her a few times when he told me he was going to the Gym. I'm not sure if he actually did meet up with her but I feel like a fool and a complete idiot. I consider this cheating since he broke my trust and went behind my back and crossed the line with flirting. He claims the texts were "jokes", but I don't see him talking or "joking" to our other girl friends like that or lying about talking to them and doing stuff with them behind my back. He also gets very upset because I can't get over it. He expects me to get over all of this in less than a week since I found the texts and he gets really defensive and makes me feel bad. At this point I don't know what to do. Do I leave him because I can't trust him right now and are disgusted with the situation or do I stick it out and see what happens? Link to comment
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