No1 Posted June 4, 2010 Share Posted June 4, 2010 It has been 7months, give or take a few days since the break up. And I have been asking myself if "Moving On" and "Getting Over" your X different. I have moved on. Since the break up, I have been going to the gym, getting back to my normal life since my X. I date, been seeing this good girl, I work out, I play baseball, been flying a lot more, and I am "happy" I am positive about my outlook in life and I know that my life is just fine and will be fine without my X in it. I can live a happy life without her. Now.. I came to realize that I am not over my X. Ever since we met 4 years ago, I have thought of her every single day. We dont stay in contact often, if we do she initiates the contact via text message and its maybe once a month, but we still stay in contact. She just recently sent me a $1000 camera in the mail with a short note saying thank you for all you have done for me. Now, I have accepted its over. We are not getting back and I would love to have her not be in my life. But I still think about her. I am thinking maybe we stay in contact because who knows what the future holds. I like to think that there is a 100% chance we will never ever get back, but in reality as long as we are alive, there is always going to be a chance and maybe I am wishing that one day perhaps in a few years we do eventually find eachother again. It has happened before. So is it possible to move on without being over someone? Link to comment
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