newwave Posted June 3, 2010 Share Posted June 3, 2010 I gave an ultimatum to the guy I want. Basically I told him this: 1) I want a relationship with him. I do not want to be his "friend", his counselor or his mother. If he can't give me a full relationship I want nothing at all. I have friends, I don't need a friendship with a guy I am interested in, who's interested in me but "afraid of falling in love". 2) That in said relationship once we get to the sexual part he must perform a certain sex act. He thinks it's gross but if he cares he'd get over his issues. Neither one of us wants sex yet anyway so maybe this one will develop in time. In the past he said he "might" reconsider. More musts to come, but these are for starters. I am tired of dealing with him. Yes he's getting better, so maybe there is hope. Sadly, while I probably could do better, I know at 39 finding a never married no kid guy is hard. Link to comment
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