Eclipse11 Posted June 3, 2010 Share Posted June 3, 2010 Hi friends... In a funny way the torture of joining Facebook made me feel better eventually...it was a good way to get over him... Since I joined and he requested me as a friend, I noticed he was adding more female friends all the time and comments...the last straw though was when I responded to a private message he wrote and he did not write one back, yet at the same time he was posting on people's walls etc... Two female friends added daily just seemed a bit excessive... I got the feeling he was rubbing my face in it or playing some sort of stupid game and it really put him off him and it hurt me too, reminded me of things he had done before so I am actually feeling much more ready to forget him and move on... And I've deactivated the account now and I'm feeling much better! The whole thing seemed artificial to me anyhow All in all it was quite healing in a funny way and I feel a great sense of relief having deactivated the account altogether I feel better because I was feeling guilty and bad for him and trying to be so nice all the time and now I just feel angry and that's better - better to be mad than sad, I think that's so true though I am still sad but more angry at the moment...Eclipse x ps. plus I was sad because suddenly my notifications stopped and I felt really unloved, no messages responded to etc...it may have been broken but I don't really care right now... Link to comment
incaangelique Posted June 3, 2010 Share Posted June 3, 2010 Yeah, I hate facebook. Deleted mine last year. It always seemed to cause more problems than it was worth. Link to comment
JusticeLaw9 Posted June 3, 2010 Share Posted June 3, 2010 I'm going to give you some really solid, concrete advice. Keep your relationships away from facebook. I hear of and read to many stories of people breaking up because of a wall post, tagged photo or because they didn't change their "status" to "In a relationship" when they should have. Facebook is great to keep up with people from work or school, but to let your relationship suffer because of it is ridicilous. Really. It's a website, a social -networking website. And no relationship should be canned because of it. Link to comment
Eclipse11 Posted June 3, 2010 Author Share Posted June 3, 2010 Hi incaangelique...glad to hear it's not just me...I found it so depressing, everybody looking like they were fine ( including me when I wasn't), looking like we didn't miss eachother at all...and I felt so sad when I saw he'd invited all those girls on to his wall...and I suddenly felt so sick of being nice all the time... Justicelaw9...unfortunately you're right I think...I never realised how hurtful it was until I joined, it made me cry when I saw the wall and that he had posted no message - it had also bothered me previously that his status said single when we were dating...I hope others take this as a warning... But seeing it and deactivating it has made me feel better... Eclipse x Link to comment
Live-N-Learn Posted June 3, 2010 Share Posted June 3, 2010 I went through the pain of not deleting my ex for 4 months post breakup. Pure torture I promise you! NOTHING good comes out of it. I finally this week deleted her and her best friend. I feel much better this afternoon and am really glad I did it..... I never want to go through that again. Yes keep your relationships off FB or delete them the day you break up! Link to comment
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