Will they runaway?

[speak]

So, I will be 21 in a week and I have never had a serious boyfriend. Only a couple dates. I am a virgin and I am afraid that when a man finds this out about me, he may not want to pursue me. I am not waiting until marriage (however if you would have asked me a few years ago that would have been the situation.) but I don't want them to think I am undesirable because of my v-card. Will men run away from me? Or like it more?

[givinggirl]

I don't think any man will run away from you. Don't worry about that.

[abitbroken]

So, I will be 21 in a week and I have never had a serious boyfriend. Only a couple dates. I am a virgin and I am afraid that when a man finds this out about me, he may not want to pursue me. I am not waiting until marriage (however if you would have asked me a few years ago that would have been the situation.) but I don't want them to think I am undesirable because of my v-card. Will men run away from me? Or like it more?

 

When you are 21, there will be plenty of guys in your age group who are also virgins, so not to worry. It is nothing to be embarrassed about.I would recommend, however, not making it first date conversation, otherwise a guy might think you are desperate to change it. I was a virgin, too, until I was 23 or 24, and I am considered an attractive woman.

[speak]

Well I think that because they may think I am not easy or whatever and you know...not that all non-virgins are easy but they may want me to hop right in with them...

[MD Geist]

No they won't. Only a fool would look at in the wrong way. Its not as creepy as when a guy is still a virgin at a later age and still a virgin cause after all it is him who is suppose to please his woman in bed and take care of her. It depends on who dates you. I know I would think to myself automatically this is going to be a very serious relationship. Just be advised the wrong type of guy can rob you of your virginity and you could be hurt so just be advised.

 

I'm happy to see you back and making some progress.

[waveseer]

I don't think any man will run away from you. Don't worry about that.

 

This is true, at least until after you are no longer a virgin. Believe it or not many men like to keep track of how many women they've "deflowered". Be careful.

[littlestar]

If you're comfortable with being a V that's all that matters, what the guys think is irrelevant and if they do take off when they find that out they werent worth your time, effort or company to begin with.

[JusticeLaw9]

So, I will be 21 in a week and I have never had a serious boyfriend. Only a couple dates. I am a virgin and I am afraid that when a man finds this out about me, he may not want to pursue me. I am not waiting until marriage (however if you would have asked me a few years ago that would have been the situation.) but I don't want them to think I am undesirable because of my v-card. Will men run away from me? Or like it more?

 

Heck no, if anything most guys want to be the first. I wouldn't worry about that. However, if you've come this far with your V-card I would strongly suggest that you give it somebody who's worth it.

[BriarRose]

You are 20 years old, no decent man is going to care that you are a virgin.

[ben2010]

So, I will be 21 in a week and I have never had a serious boyfriend. Only a couple dates. I am a virgin and I am afraid that when a man finds this out about me, he may not want to pursue me. I am not waiting until marriage (however if you would have asked me a few years ago that would have been the situation.) but I don't want them to think I am undesirable because of my v-card. Will men run away from me? Or like it more?

 

21? Wow, I wish I can go back to 21 again... Doesn't matter what bf you have, must protect yourself first. Don't tell your bf about your virgin status. They will think you want a one night stand or something.

[ibu]

When I was 21, I was a virgin too.

I wasn't despairing that men would run away from me. You really have nothing to worry about.