Atticus90 Posted June 2, 2010 Share Posted June 2, 2010 Ok my ex and I saw eachother yesterday. Things actually seemend to be looking up. We spent the whole day with our son and we actually had a talk with eachother for a few hours. I told her i thought it'd be best if we didn't get back into the relationship without solving the problems we're having ( trust issues, maybe infidelity ). I told her that i'm working on myself right now and that I'm not quite ready yet, but i wanted her to know I was trying. She said she's trying to gain trust back for me to and that it helped her that I wasn't trying to jump into the relationship before i didn't solve my issues. We were telling eachother we loved eachother the entire day. Sending nice txt messages to eachother. Told eachother goodnight for the first time in a month last night and I thought we were hitting it off great. Now today.. I woke up at about 10 this morning ( havent slept that good since we broke up... ). I called her 20 minutes later to tell her good morning and ask how my son was. She was kinda sulking and I asked her "well what's the matter?".. she kept saying nothing nothing nothing, but then I said "well i'm here and i'd like to help you if there's something wrong".. she then went on to say "well i dont know if i can ever take you back".. then i say "well i wasnt expecting that right away, and that I was waiting til things improved more before I even ask".. she then snapped and said "well im not getting child support on you and i want you to stay out of my life and our sons life. we dont need you anymore. if you call back or txt or fb me then im gonna call the police".. she literally screamned at me!!! I was still calm cause i was so shocked and I said "what did i do? thought we had a good day yesterday?".. she goes on saying she doesnt want me anymore blah blah blah and hangs up on me.. I check my email to see if i missed somethin.. she sent me a txt on my email at 8:28 this morning saying "good morning babe".. While this was all going on, I heard her on the computer and everytime i called back it just kept ringing. she was on phone with someone else. if i'm not mistaken, i think a new guy just showed up in the picture... im not just paranoid about that. that's a gut feeling.. so strong that I could probably guarantee it 99.9%.. What's your take on this? I can't keep doing this.. I actually thought things were getting better.. I really did. Why would she give me that good day yesterday and say good morning babe this morning and a few hours later say all those things to me? please help.. i feel so used... i was a backup it seems... Link to comment
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