jazzbarrett Posted June 2, 2010 Share Posted June 2, 2010 Prior to our breakup, my ex and I bought some items together that, when we broke up, he rudely stated he was keeping to himself. The items, according to the company, were going to be shipped in installments and even though my name is also on the purchasing account, he is the one paying for it, so I don't really care that he is keeping the stuff. What pisses me off is that, after 4 months of having been broken up, and him moved out, he still has not changed his address. I am still receiving mail from him from this company. And it is not post office mail, it is the UPS guy knocking at my door asking for a signature. I have not answered the door because a) I do not want to sign for items I have not paid for and b) I do not want to create a situation where he and I have to meet sometime for me to give him his stuff. My question is why, after 4 months of NC, has he not changed his address??? I know he has got to be realizing stuff is not going to his new address and I know he keeps up on his accounts and must be aware that the items are being shipped back because no one is signing for them at my address. Is this some sick way of him wanting me to contact him? Is he trying to create a situation where we meet? Or is he (this I do not believe to be true at all, but a friend suggested it) trying to give me my half of what we initially, prior to NC after breakup, agreed on what I would keep? I honestly do not want to keep avoiding the UPS guy, but it doesn't seem like he's going to be changing his info any time soon. What should I do? Link to comment
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