Update...should I dial it back?

[KG]

I drove to her place today, we had a talk. She agreed she was way too much into her roomies life, at the expense of us. That she can be supportive during the week, but weekends are another story, her life/her roomie"s.

 

So we broke out a calendar, and " mapped" our summer. Special events, concerts and the like, family events, and which ones she could blow off.

 

We settled on 3 weekends per month, including one each for her camp and mine!

 

The bottom line was that she realized, over the weekend, that she was drawing back. It was a natural reaction to being in love like this, when she expects to be hurt, ( think Ex ). But that she will be moving up here, not to move in, but to get her own place and be closer to family and my son and I.

 

We're each taking a week off at July, going to go to S.C. to visit our families, while my son stays with my nephew and his kids.

 

We're good!

 

Neither of us wants to lose this, we just need to communicate better.

[CatsMeeoow]

Excellent!!!!!!

[Brittney2008]

I'm really glad to hear that she is going to be less involved in her roomies situation and focus a little more on you KG.

 

Are you asking like dialing it back because you think that the new plan is too much time together? If so then I don't think it's at all too much especially because you two are very serious.

 

Enjoy your summer

[KG]

I'm really glad to hear that she is going to be less involved in her roomies situation and focus a little more on you KG.

 

Are you asking like dialing it back because you think that the new plan is too much time together? If so then I don't think it's at all too much especially because you two are very serious.

 

Enjoy your summer

 

No, the post regards another post where I thought things weren't going to work out.

[Brittney2008]

^ Oh gotcha. Yay i'm happy for you