prettymommy Posted June 1, 2010 Share Posted June 1, 2010 Don't know where else to put this, so figure I will just put it here. I have a very small, core group of girlfriends. Like.... 5. Quality over quantity, right? Anyways, 3 of the 5 are married. One just recently announed back in Feb she is getting divorced. The last one is single like me. Well, the soon to be divorcee' has been seeing someone pretty seriously since April. The single one (my wing-woman basically of the past year) just emailed me that she now has a boyfriend (just 3 weeks after starting to date this dude....). Where I was looking forward to a summer of hanging out with my single girlfriends and roaming town, I now find myself single, and single-friendless. Sigh. I feel pretty alone at the moment. It hasn't helped that I have been on a dozen dates over the past couple months (match) and only two of the dozen have gone beyone a first date, and neither of those made it past a second date. I keep telling myself I will not settle in life anymore, but its getting pretty damn lonely and disappointing. I draw on my girl time to help out in those moments, but it seems like anytime I have a girlfriend who embarks on a new relationship, I never see them again except for once every blue moon... I realize this is not about me at all, and yes, I am happy for them and want them to find lasting love and all that. I guess I am just tired of being alone. I don't mind not having a man in my life at the moment, but I miss my friends and having my girl time every week. So I don't know what to do... It's hard to make new friends at age 33. Not having my girlfriends around as much makes me want to find a partner, but that is for all the wrong reasons... Just a vent I guess. Link to comment
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