soul12 Posted June 1, 2010 Share Posted June 1, 2010 Ok well, I was recently dumped in March because my ex was having "up and down feelings" towards me. She told me that on some days she would really be happy with me, and then other days she wasn't happy at all. This could have been due to our constant arguing over little things and the fact that I had to move 4 hours away from her. In Feb during my birthday she came down to visit my family! My whole family loved her and I loved the fact that she came down to meet my family. We were together for a little over 3 years and absolutely LOVED this girl. However, a few weeks later she told me that she just couldn't do it anymore. Apparently the LDR was hurting a lot more then she was letting on and she dumped me. Of course I did the begging and pleading for a couple of weeks, and there were times when she said that she just wanted to think about it. She even told me that there would be a good chance of us getting back together. However, she finally ended it by saying that the distance was too much and that she just wanted to leave it alone (she does not want to be in a relationship right now). She really insisted on being friends and kept telling me how much of a great guy I was. I finally told her that I love her way too much to just settle with being friends and told her that I needed time. She agreed and told me that I am a genuinely great guy, and that any girl would be happy to be with me, and that when she said she loved me she truly meant it. A month goes by and I was visiting some friends near her, and asked if she to catch up. She agreed and even suggested a place and time for us to meet. We hung out for like 5hrs talking, and flirted a bit. I even told her that in the summer I was going to be moving back in the area. I then asked her if she would be interested in connecting again and she told me that the break up was still to fresh for her (its May and we broke up in March). I agreed and told her that since I had a month of healing myself maybe she could want that same time to heal herself. She thanked me for being honest with my feelings and suggesting that she take time from me to heal. I understand that I should move on, which I will but I can't hide the fact that I still really love her. When she met with me she told me how much of a good and decent guy I am and that I am a respectful guy. Ladies here, I really did nothing to be a douche to her in the relationship, and she never did anything terrible to me. Do you guys think I have a shot at getting her back. (Please don't just answer 'MOVE ON!' or 'Shes an ex for a reason') Thanks Link to comment
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